Jeri

Profile

Username:
elderjane
Name:
Jeri
Location:
Oklahoma City, OK
Birthday:
03/27
Status:
Not Interested

Stats

Post Reads:
298,646
Posts:
1358
Photos:
3
Last Online:
> 30 days ago
View All »

My Friends

2 days ago
7 days ago
8 days ago
15 days ago
16 days ago
> 30 days ago
> 30 days ago
> 30 days ago

Subscribe

Southwestern Woman

Life & Events > Update
 

Update

The hospital experience has nearly done me in. I waited
in the waiting room from 8 to one which was a truly multi-
cultural experience. You felt lucky just to be waiting on
an ordinary surgery. There were Amish parents of a boy
who was a victim of a head on collision. (Why was he in
a car instead of a buggy?) There was an Asian family with
a baby. They were able to twist his blanket into a sling
and carry him. It must be the customary way of baby care
in their country because it was so smooth and practiced.
There were pregnant girls of every race kind and color
waiting on boy friends to get out of surgery to correct
smashed up boys from fights and other mishaps. One teen
told me she was due in Feb. and hoped her boyfriends face
would be healed from his fight by then. Almost every bone
in his face was smashed. There were people sleeping on the floors, chairs and anyplace with their own quilts.


Ted's surgery was apparently successful. His pain level
has dropped significantly and he is up and walking. We
are nearly sure he will be home sometime tomorrow. If they remove the drain in his back, he can come home.

The food in the hospital is awful. Nothing is ever hot
and the lettuce in his salad was brown and withered. He
is going to try a sandwich tonight and a dill pickle. I
should get a lot more appreciation after this for my
cooking.

I told him that his mind seemed much clearer and he said
it was the freedom from the pain which has been constant
and intense. His feet were still numb but most of the
pain is gone.

We are grateful.


posted on Oct 29, 2014 4:25 PM ()

Comments:

Glad Ted's pain is abated. It should make a big difference. When I lived in NYC, I had to go to the ER for an infection in my hand that had gotten so bad, pain was shooting up my arm. I kept thinking it would heal. I waited for 8 hours because violent crime victims had to come first, and there were many.
comment by tealstar on Oct 30, 2014 9:31 AM ()
I know the gunshot and stab wounds come first. The emergency room is
always packed with the lesser wounded. Since this is the only hospital
in Oklahoma City that will take people unable to pay, it is always packed.
reply by elderjane on Oct 30, 2014 4:59 PM ()
When I visit people in hospitals I always get real food at Taco Bell, Wendy's or Arby's to take to them. It is appreciated.
comment by jondude on Oct 30, 2014 5:59 AM ()
I know that real food is welcome. I asked an R.N. if the food was always
that bad and she said yes. They tell the patients to order all they want
and as often as they want. However there is not much risk of anyone
wanting more than a subsistence diet!
reply by elderjane on Oct 30, 2014 5:02 PM ()
When I was finally allowed to eat after having gall bladder surgery, Jay brought me a corned beef sandwich.
reply by tealstar on Oct 30, 2014 9:32 AM ()
So glad to hear Ted is feeling much better. Your hospital waiting rooms sound like quite an experience.
comment by nittineedles on Oct 29, 2014 8:42 PM ()
It is an experience. I have never seen so many pregnant girls in my
life.
reply by elderjane on Oct 30, 2014 5:04 PM ()
So happy for you and Ted, that his pain is mostly gone. And in the midst of your own trouble you paint an incredible picture of that waiting room crowd. So there are Amish communities in Oklahoma?
comment by drmaus on Oct 29, 2014 7:23 PM ()
Yes, we have several Amish settlements and they are famous for their
carpentry and their food. People with traumatic injuries are helicoptered
into this hospital because it has an amazing trauma center.
reply by elderjane on Oct 30, 2014 4:54 PM ()
Wow! Glad he is feeling better... And sounds quite interesting at the hospital!! To say the least....
comment by kristilyn3 on Oct 29, 2014 5:10 PM ()
It was interesting! The operating team was wonderful and supriseingley
funny but the staff once he got a room was overworked. One of his nurses
worked l6 hours straight!
reply by elderjane on Oct 30, 2014 5:07 PM ()
Constant pain can be exhausting. The hospital sounds like a nightmare tho. Fortunately I still live in a decent area.
comment by jjoohhnn on Oct 29, 2014 4:58 PM ()
Today is the third day after surgery and he is home and being an extremely
difficult patient. I have him knocked out now and Rex and I have a little
peace and quiet. He has been up and down all day. He doesn't do invalid
well.
reply by elderjane on Oct 30, 2014 5:10 PM ()

Comment on this article   


1,358 articles found   [ Previous Article ]  [ Next Article ]  [ First ]  [ Last ]