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Reading and Thinking

Usually, I read for escape and entertainment but I took one
of my old psychology books out entitled The Sexual Wilderness
so I could compare it with the sexual mores of today. The
psychologist predicted the death of tenderness and commitment
with the new sexual permissiveness. I really don't think
that has happened for any but the incurably promiscuous.

This book was written in l968 and the writer took the position
that instant gratification was the bane of our society and he
wrote this over 40 years ago. I do believe he was right about this. Our children seem to be unable to delay instant
pleasure for possible greater rewards. I am thinking of the
mountain of debt Americans have gone into for half million
dollar houses on a l00,000. dollar salary. Credit card debt
keeps increasing among young families and they are caught in
a web from which they seem unable to escape. The way of
escaping is austerity and it is so hard when our society stresses affluence.

Our political system is in the same mess and we are going to
have to spend money on the social programs that the Tea Party is resisting. We can no longer let the poor and the
middle class bear the brunt of it all.

Where does it all end? You tell me because I don't know.

posted on Dec 4, 2011 6:04 AM ()

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I once thought of having a T shirt made up that said, "All I want is everything. Is that so much to Ask?" But didn't.
comment by tealstar on Dec 6, 2011 2:26 PM ()
"Times, they are achangin'". Then again, it's pretty much the "same 'ol, same 'ol". I guess it depends on what you're talking about. One of the good things about getting/being old (me, not you), is my "care factor" diminishes. As does my worry and stress factors. I try not to be so analytical, although I am.
comment by solitaire on Dec 5, 2011 6:17 AM ()
Things are changing so fast in our society, I feel like I've got one foot on a banana peel and the other on the abyss. And I don't know what the abyss is - that's the scary part.
comment by troutbend on Dec 4, 2011 8:42 PM ()
Where will it all end? The media will distort all current events. We expected to find Italy and Greece in turmoil but it is only university students having a field day. The rest are going about their business harvesting olives and profiting from tourism, as they should.
reply by elderjane on Dec 5, 2011 5:20 AM ()
What do you mean--instant gratification? It takes me longer than ever.
comment by larryb on Dec 4, 2011 5:25 PM ()
That's funny Larry. Thanks for lightening this discussion up.
reply by elderjane on Dec 5, 2011 5:20 AM ()
I am guilty of instant gratification I must admit. I have a VERY hard time waiting - very little patience. I need to work on that.
comment by kristilyn3 on Dec 4, 2011 3:35 PM ()
It is hard but it is certainly rewarding. Although sometimes we wait too
long and that is almost as bad.
reply by elderjane on Dec 5, 2011 5:22 AM ()
Options for men and especially women have expanded dramatically since 1968. No once has to settle for an unfulfilling commitment or relationship these days. I see that as a good thing. But that has not been the death of kindness that I can see. There is an impatience for gratification and self-centeredness in humans' very nature, which marketers push to the limit, aided by banks pushing credit and profits that has gone way too far. So the loss of credit availability is a good thing in my book. Saving for what one wants is much better, albeit frustrating temporarily. As for the Tea Party, it is losing support steadily across the country, valid polls indicate, and across the country the citizens overwhelmingly support taxing the wealthy. In the 2012 elections, there will be a lot of one term GOP wonders going home. Serious progress for the middle class will have to wait until then, sadly.
comment by marta on Dec 4, 2011 8:23 AM ()
I like the freedom that we have now but deplore the explosion of credit
and like you am glad that it is not so available now. I hope the polls are right about the tea party. It doesn't make a lick of sense to further tax
the poor and the middle class and ignore the hogs licking their chops in the
trough.
reply by elderjane on Dec 5, 2011 5:26 AM ()
The need for "instant gratification" will gettcha everytime! There's a pricetag on EVERYTHING . . .
comment by blogsterella on Dec 4, 2011 6:47 AM ()
Words of wisdom dear blogsterella. Glad to see you back.
reply by elderjane on Dec 5, 2011 5:27 AM ()

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