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Another Friday

Time is flying by, unlike when I was a child and eagerly
anticipating some event.

I am going to pick up Bobby and go to the highschool to
witness Adrienne getting yet another honor. She lettered
in academia or in band and will get one of seven letter
jackets being handed out. That child has had a fantastic
senior year and I am so happy that Bobby has gotten to
witness it.

I am always trying to think up appetizing food for
Bobby's lunches. Today I am going to add chicken to
some minestrone and season it and see what happens.

I am starting on fall house cleaning and am going to
attempt the return air vent cleaning this weekend. This
is always a messy job. It ranks right up there with
cleaning mini blinds. I will touch up the paint on
the white cabinets in the kitchen and clean corners
as best I can. I had a woman helping me with house work
but I began to miss a lot of small items and decided to
economize and do it myself. I am handicapped by getting
tottery on ladders now, as most of the elderly are.
I tried to find a grout pen at the local hardware store
but will have to search farther afield.

Rex still needs an adjustment to the little watch that
I am certain he has hidden somewhere. The minute it gets
good and dark, he starts pressuring for bedtime company.
His joints are a little better and he is able to jump
more easily. When it first began to get cold, he got
very stiff and his right leg seemed weak. I love big
dogs but hate to see them getting joint problems so
early in life. Adequon shots continue to help him.

Getting old is never easy. Sometimes I feel that I have
lost me or what makes me a unique human being in the
everyday minutia of life. I am thinking vacation
instead of therapy.

posted on Nov 6, 2015 7:10 AM ()

Comments:

I have never felt lost so maybe I'm not quite as old as my body tries to make me feel. If vacation is what you need, vacation is what you should have!
comment by jjoohhnn on Nov 6, 2015 6:32 PM ()
It is disconcerting to feel a loss of self. I think with rest and distance from grief, life will get better. A vacation is definitely in
the future!
reply by elderjane on Nov 7, 2015 5:37 AM ()
I hadn't thought of it like that, but I can identify with that feeling that we lose ourselves and become whatever it is that other expect us to be.
comment by troutbend on Nov 6, 2015 3:03 PM ()
None of us are strangers to grief and every day tasks help with distracting us. I try to remember that every day is a gift. Yesterday,
Ashley became fourteen and I made all her favorite dishes for her.
reply by elderjane on Nov 7, 2015 5:41 AM ()
Yes time in older life truncates -- every 10 minutes it's Christmas. Ambitious housecleaning has become a very sometime thing. I tend to get sick when I try. Also, I'd like to clean out two huge concrete urns that contain, now, weeds, and put in new soil and plants that won't die. But that is a major effort so it isn't getting done.

Kiss Rex for me.
comment by tealstar on Nov 6, 2015 8:52 AM ()
Our strength is not what it used to be, is it? Better not to get sick.
I may have the twins do some of the ladder work, however they are a little like bulls in a china shop. They have more enthusiasm than skill!!


reply by elderjane on Nov 6, 2015 2:12 PM ()
I'm in dire need of a vacation as well. Do it!
comment by kristilyn3 on Nov 6, 2015 7:22 AM ()
How about a spa day for now and a vacation in the spring?
reply by elderjane on Nov 6, 2015 2:14 PM ()

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