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Car Fudge

I admit that I spoil my children still so I usually make
candy for them during the Christmas season. Sometimes my
son will request that I cook something that he has a
hankering for. I always comply. It is usually chocolate
pie or lasagna. I sent half of the last batch of fudge
home with him. When I picked up Adrienne and Ashley, they
both complained that they had only received one piece each
and that Dad had locked the rest in his car. Since we had
plenty left, I packed up another batch for them to take home.
When Ellie picked up the girls, she said, "We had fudge? I
didn't get a single piece!" Adrienne said, "It is Dad's car
fudge and he doesn't share.

We are still on the medical merry go round. We saw the
neurologist yesterday
and there is yet another test on
Monday. It is an EMG and I have no idea what it is. We
average two to three visits a week and both of us are so
anxious to be free again. I see my physician once a year
but Ted has just fallen apart all at once. I believe it
is due to his exposure to agent orange in Vietnam in 1968
and l969.

Health is so important to happiness. Chronic pain is like
a witch on your back that never lets up. He is in that
period of waiting to get the pain stimulator back. The l7th
is going to be a red letter day for us.

I hope it will be warm today because I need to do battle
with the leaves again as well as the sweet gum balls. My
neighbor told me that they had filled 30 fifty five gallon
trash bags with leaves and had more to go. We are having
this severe leaf problem because Hilltop road dead ends right in front of our houses and the north wind makes us
a gift of their debris.

posted on Dec 6, 2012 5:32 AM ()

Comments:

The fudge thing is too funny! Hope Ted feel better soon.
comment by dragonflyby on Dec 20, 2012 7:55 PM ()
Too cute that your son hoards the fudge. Sorry for Ted, and yes heath is the most important thing!
comment by kristilyn3 on Dec 8, 2012 6:33 AM ()
My brother, who served in Vietnam before Ted, also has dealt with the heath affects of Agent Orange exposure over the years. He tells me the V.A. has expanded the available conditions attributed to AO, including s number of cognitive and mental health conditions. Horrible stuff. Electromyography, or EMG, is a nerve conduction test that measures the electrical activity of muscles. My dear late sister-in-law had a number of those as her docs tried to treat her sciatic pain and spinal lesions. I've had the test myself for complications from fibromyalgia. It can be a helpful diagnostic test. Sending warmest care to Ted.

Just tickled that your son hoards and hides your delicious fudge! Best keep up the fudge-making!
comment by marta on Dec 6, 2012 5:57 PM ()
Thanks for the information Marta. So many of the Vietnam Vets are dead by the time they get to their sixties. I am so sorry about your sister-in-law
but glad that she had such loving care from you and your brother.
reply by elderjane on Dec 7, 2012 3:01 AM ()
So sorry for Ted's continuing pain. Hope he gets some relief soon.

It is very funny that your son won't share his fudge.
comment by tealstar on Dec 6, 2012 8:02 AM ()
I thought it was hilarious but since he has been sick we cut him a lot of
slack.
reply by elderjane on Dec 6, 2012 10:06 AM ()
My heart goes out to Ted. If it's Agent Orange, as you suspect, that was bad, bad stuff. Vietnamese and Americans alike have suffered from it for decades, without much success in the courts. A Brooklyn U.S. Dist. Court in '05 dismissed a lawsuit against Monsanto, Dow Chem, and others, ruling that the defendants, as contractors of the US gov't, shared sovereign immunity. The 2nd Dist Court of Appeal upheld the ruling, and the US Sup. Court declined to hear it. Even tho' it contained dioxin, a known poison, it was not considered a chemical weapon & not intended for use against humans (as opposed to plant life!)and thus not a violation of international law. Unbelievable!! I've lost a number of friends who were exposed to Agent Orange. Of course, the Vietnamese people have REALLY suffered from it. Meanwhile, we have the nerve to rail against prospect of other countries using chemical weapons.
comment by steve on Dec 6, 2012 7:30 AM ()
He was exposed to Agent Orange almost every day for l3 months. The V. A.
denied his claim and he was advised to claim P.T.S.D which he certainly
had as well. He was a kid when he joined the Marines and it messed up his
mind to be in the jungle fighting for nothing, he survived but his mind
and body were certainly damaged as were most of the Viet Nam veterans. I am
so anti war. It gains nothing and we lose a lot of good men and wound
others for life. When I see the awful head injurys at the V. A. Hospital
it makes me sick with rage and the futility of trying to talk sense into
people who support these two new wars that we have been trapped in for
ten years.
reply by elderjane on Dec 6, 2012 10:16 AM ()

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