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Weddings and Mother's Day



Friday I attended a wedding. A fellow Auxiliary member got married. He was one of our youngest members who joined us when he was only 19. One of his groomsmen is active duty CG but has maintained his membership in the Auxiliary. This photo is of the groom, Zach, front left (? the guy with the hat), and the flotilla members who were at the wedding. I am in the center behind the other two women. The wedding was at the Hyatt in Clearwater on a balcony facing the beach. Afterwards, there was an open bar for several hours, a nice dinner, music, dancing... It was a lot of fun. Zach mentioned how much the wedding cost, and frankly, it was enough for a down payment on a house. Think I would have opted for the house.

My sister and I just had a conversation about how crazy some parents are spending hundreds of dollars on children's birthday parties. They are held at kid-friendly restaurants or if in the home, they hire clowns and other entertainment or rent those air-filled bouncy things that kids play in (don't know what they are called). What happened to just ice cream and cake? My sister decided to have her two-year old's party at her house and invited her two and four year-old daughter's friends. (Ordinary party- no entertainment. Just ice cream and cake and some planned games.) Very few children attended, but the ones who did come had a great time, and Linda got to know a few of the mothers.

I received a card from my son for Mother's Day that I can't figure out. It is a religious card with a bible verse in it and everything. It is weird because he is not the least bit Christian. Was that the last card in the store? No gift; just a religious card. Oh well, at least he remembered to send a card. He did not even do that much for my birthday. I'm glad I have friends.

To all of the Mothers out there---Happy Mother's Day!





posted on May 13, 2012 7:34 AM ()

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Sorry I'm late on reading and responding this post. And happy belated M.D.!
comment by solitaire on May 16, 2012 4:42 AM ()
Thank you!
reply by dragonflyby on May 17, 2012 7:50 AM ()
Glad you had a good time at the wedding. Guys are not the greatest at doing things for Mothers. I don't think my brothers ever did so much as send my mother a card on Mothers Day. I was always the one that saw to that she had a corsage and was taken out to dinner. Don't be hurt! It's just a guy thing.
comment by redimpala on May 13, 2012 10:34 PM ()
You know, I think you are right. I have got to let go of my expectations/disappointments.
reply by dragonflyby on May 15, 2012 10:07 AM ()
Weddings can be so much fun and I love to plan them. One of the nicest
ones that I ever attended was a candle light pool side wedding. It was so
pretty.
comment by elderjane on May 13, 2012 9:26 PM ()
This one was a lot of fun and casual- right down to the groom and his groomsmen wearing sandals.
reply by dragonflyby on May 15, 2012 10:08 AM ()
Great photo — and glad you all enjoyed a fun time!
I wish your friend and his new bride much happiness.
The expenses of weddings and children's parties can get out of hand fast. My wedding was a big deal, but then my dear mother loved throwing parties. It's a nice memory.
comment by marta on May 13, 2012 3:50 PM ()
I love Zach to pieces. He is a very talented young man.
reply by dragonflyby on May 15, 2012 10:10 AM ()
Do you think he chose the card without looking inside? And ignored the "Blessings for a Saintly Mother's Day" on the front?

It seems like everything from kids' birthday parties to holiday celebrations to weddings has gotten out of hand, as if each has to out-do the last one.
comment by troutbend on May 13, 2012 11:10 AM ()
Turns out he did not pick out the card or see it. Oh well.
reply by dragonflyby on May 15, 2012 10:11 AM ()
That is a great shot there.Happy Mother's Day
comment by fredo on May 13, 2012 8:34 AM ()
You all look like you were having so much fun at the wedding. I am with you about balancing the cost of weddings. I worked enough of them as a server to realize that while they are great, expensive weddings are rarely enjoyed by the brides or the grooms because they are running around going here and there.
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!
comment by trekbrarian on May 13, 2012 7:42 AM ()
Thank you for the mother's day wish!
reply by dragonflyby on May 15, 2012 10:12 AM ()

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