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Just the Facts, Ma'am!



While 'just the facts' may be a great way to conduct an investigation, Joe Friday would have had a terrible time trying to live his day to day life based just on 'the facts'.

Most of our most important decisions in life are based on feelings and beliefs, not facts. We choose our spouses based on feelings, and our relationships with our families are definitely guided more by feelings than by reason. We choose things like church membership based upon our beliefs- or absence thereof. Even the political parties we adhere to are based on beliefs about those parties rather than facts, and political parties are a great example of how perceptions about a party shape its policies, and not the other way around. (Look beyond recent history!) Concepts like Patriotism are feelings, and many of these feelings become values, both personal and social.

We cannot live without facts. Facts give substance and definition to reality. We cannot, however, deny our feelings and beliefs because they ultimately serve the same purpose: defining our reality. Trying to live one's life by denying any one of the three- facts, feelings or beliefs- deprives us of meaning.

This is over-simplified but I am sure you get my gist. No reason to write a treatise when a few simple sentences will make the same point.

posted on Sept 14, 2008 9:17 PM ()

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You've struck a chord. Too many people think they're beliefs are based on facts, when really they are being guided by feelings or beliefs. That's when a logical discussion can turn nasty. However, I DO "believe" that "feelings" and "beliefs CAN be built on "facts". Love this post!
comment by jerms on Sept 20, 2008 3:12 PM ()
we were just talking bout "Just the Facts Ma'am, this week. Thanks for this, we were talking about the same thing..Facts!
comment by anacoana on Sept 20, 2008 11:40 AM ()
It is hard to find balance in this life and sometimes it is hard to trust our feelings. I think we do better if we love life and trust those whom we love.
comment by elderjane on Sept 16, 2008 8:04 AM ()
I am so confused.Dragnet before my time
comment by fredo on Sept 15, 2008 10:24 AM ()
This is just an amazing post. It really is about perception and reality. Things get tough when our perceptions overcome the reality when we make decisions and act on them.
AJ
comment by lunarhunk on Sept 15, 2008 9:22 AM ()
That is why we should all bow down and worship librarians!
comment by thestephymore on Sept 15, 2008 1:02 AM ()
For me, the secret is to balance all three and find some harmony.
comment by marta on Sept 14, 2008 9:55 PM ()

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