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Why I Have Been Gone So Long..

Thanksgiving weekend, someone in my family searched my name, found these posts, and well, I got battered (emotionally) for some of the things I said, not because they were dishonest, but because I was "hanging dirty laundry out for the public to see". I say honest things here. You are my friends and this, I thought, was a safe place to vent. I was mistaken.

Both my son and DIL are on FB so I rarely mention them, don't visit their pages except to see new pictures of my grandsons, and rarely comment on their posts. (Maybe twice a year?) They pretend I don't exist. I have two sisters and a BIL on FB, but we have a great relationship and we visit each others posts and comment freely. Linda and her husband, Art, have such a wacky sense of humor that I cannot help but adore them!

I miss you guys. Because FB is so public, it lacks the friendliness and intimacy that we share here. For months, I posted nothing on MyBloggers because I did not want to encourage them to track (stalk?) me. I feared a re-occurrence of the holiday fiasco. I would hope that if they have been checking to see what new things I've said, that nearly five months of posting nothing would discourage them. I also changed my privacy settings.

What is it about MyBloggers that I am so darn open here? I would not in a million years post those paragraphs above on FB.

I will start coming back again, but if my posts are brief and superficial for a time, please understand. I need to be cautious for a time.

posted on Apr 11, 2014 7:26 PM ()

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I know what your saying Welcome back as you can see they love you here.
comment by fredo on Apr 12, 2014 2:40 PM ()
Thanks, Fredo! I see you on FB, but like I said, most of the posts there are superficial.
reply by dragonflyby on Apr 15, 2014 11:18 AM ()
Have replied to your private message. I use Facebook for political opinions and finding people I have lost touch with, then I switch to E mail. I don't care for it as a social medium for reasons you have mentioned. It's too public. If you switch your screen name to something people can't Google, that might work. You'd have to let us all know, of course.
comment by tealstar on Apr 12, 2014 6:30 AM ()
I resent the invasion of privacy by my family, but since my son no longer talks to me, I no longer care. I have done everything I can to rebuild that relationship but he just puts up too many barriers. I will be cautious for a while, but I won't change my screen name unless it happens again.
reply by dragonflyby on Apr 15, 2014 12:21 PM ()
Love ya, Dottie.
comment by jondude on Apr 12, 2014 5:35 AM ()
Hope Rosie improves.
reply by dragonflyby on Apr 15, 2014 12:22 PM ()
We are all on your side. I sympathize with your plight. I want to welcome
you back to mybloggers where we can let it all hang out, dirty laundry or not.Facebook is superficial...just a way of keeping up and sharing pictures.
Love you babe, keep painting.
comment by elderjane on Apr 12, 2014 5:24 AM ()
My son no longer talks to me. I have not received a birthday, Christmas or Mother's day card from him in years, so why do I worry about him? I will no longer allow him to control my life through fear and intimidation.
reply by dragonflyby on Apr 15, 2014 12:24 PM ()
I forgot to put
comment by troutbend on Apr 11, 2014 8:35 PM ()
I've missed hearing from you, Dottie, and was worried about how things are going for you. What a mess. Will it work for you to change your MyBloggers name to something nonsense so it doesn't come up in Searches? We all need a place where we feel like we can be honest, and you know we are all here to be on your side.
comment by troutbend on Apr 11, 2014 8:34 PM ()
This too shall pass! I have missed MyBloggers!
reply by dragonflyby on Apr 15, 2014 12:25 PM ()

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