Dottie Riley

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I just completed painting my son and my grandson. Above are both my painting and the main photo that I used. For my grandson's face I used a different photo reference. My son is hard to draw/ paint. He has a tall forehead and broad orbital ridges. Oh well, at least it looks like him.

I find that I am struggling with depression. I am painting a lot because it provides me with an escape. Last night I drank a whole bottle of wine. Not good. I guess one bottle in two weeks is not too bad, but my body will be struggling for the next two or three days to dump the toxins. I stopped buying wine because it is just too easy to give in to the urge to open it, especially at night, but on this last trip to WalMart- the bottle jumped into my cart! Sure, let me blame the bottle.
When I can't sleep, I stay up until all hours of the morning playing Scrabble online. Over the course of 4 to 5 hours I will finish off a bottle of wine. I play so much that it is almost a mindless activity for me and it usually does not impact my scores too much. Also, I play faster games (ten minute time limits. I have noticed that while my average time is 8 minutes, I need all ten if I am drinking wine while I play. Oh well, no more wine for me for a while. I am having enough problems dealing with the depression to complicate it more with alcohol. The paintbrush works better.

posted on Aug 7, 2008 10:59 AM ()

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The photo captured a moment - the oil will always capture three to (endless) generations!!! (I still wanted the binky in Michael's mouth!)
comment by haddox101 on Aug 20, 2008 8:25 AM ()
Wow wonderful job
comment by carrryon on Aug 16, 2008 2:37 AM ()
Just beautiful!
comment by texastar on Aug 11, 2008 10:33 PM ()
You are so talented.I suffer from depression for many reasons.My son is an alcoholic,I take care of my bedridden Mom,who has Alzheimers and wears diapers and is fed thru a feeding tube in her stomach.My Dad isn't doing well(he is 82).Drinking helps numb the pain but only for awhile.Take care and my thoughts and prayers are with you.Laurie
comment by dogsalot on Aug 11, 2008 8:01 PM ()
Lovely painting -- handsome son. I am addicted to white wine but keep it to a glass with dinner. For me, it's the calories that are daunting but, also, when
I overindulge at a party, I get really sorry because the following
day is a misery. So sorry tragedy has touched your life. My thoughts
are with you.
comment by tealstar on Aug 11, 2008 4:12 AM ()
Great painting--you're good. Can you stop with one glass of wine per day? It's good for you in moderation, you know. Take the advice of the other commenters--wise people. Hang in there.
comment by solitaire on Aug 10, 2008 7:10 AM ()
Love this painting! You have such a gift to share!
Good to know you are seeing a therapist, and as a fellow person with depression, I hope you will make positive, healing choices as you deal with your grief and depression. Dottie. Drinking and depression only lead to darkness. Have a ((((HUG))))....
comment by marta on Aug 10, 2008 5:32 AM ()
comment by mzscarlett on Aug 8, 2008 5:41 AM ()
I wouldnt widen the head, the reason it looks slightly different is that in the photo the head is tilted slightly more forward. Measure the distance between your son's eyebrow and his son's forehead, then see how many times this distance, is the width between your son's chin and the baby's. [the actual distances don't matter, it is the relative distances.] I prefer the painting because of this, Your son seems slightly more open and cheerful and I wouldnt change it at all. if you wanted a photo you would have simply got an enlargement, not made a painting.
As for depression. I find that a long, brisk walk - anywwhere - helps. even if it is raining. walk till depression gives way to rational thought, till problems receed to maneagable proportions, till you realise that life is as it is and there's not too much you can do about it except cope and not blame yourself for anything, but also not feel helpless. Because clearly you are not hlepless. you're a pleasant, talented woman who can take care of herself, and is well aware of her weaknesses... become more aware of your strengths and learn to say "#### you" to 'the world'.
comment by clovis on Aug 7, 2008 7:25 PM ()
That is such a wonderful picture, and you made a wonderful painting from it. You capture so much with your talent.
AJ
comment by lunarhunk on Aug 7, 2008 6:36 PM ()
I know what you mean about how easy it would be to drink too much. It sure does relax a person, though. What stops me is a dread of hangovers. I've never tried computer Scrabble, sounds fun.
comment by troutbend on Aug 7, 2008 2:26 PM ()
Good work!
comment by jondude on Aug 7, 2008 12:26 PM ()
Every now and then it can't hurt and provides a bit of an escape. Fredo is right about not letting it jump in the cart too often. I love the painting. The tender and proud look on your son's face has been captured.
comment by elderjane on Aug 7, 2008 11:50 AM ()
Dottie, the painting is great. And I think it's ok to over-indulge every once in awhile (God knows, I do it!) You're going through a lot. As long as you don't turn to wine every time you feel that you can't deal with something, I think you'll be just fine.
comment by shesaidwhat on Aug 7, 2008 11:12 AM ()
First,let me say this.That is a very handsome photos of the
boys,The painting is great.
Now for the wine bit,have you seek out therapy for this.
This is not good and do not liked it.
How about your DR.there.
Do not do this,take your time and the wine only hurt you more.
A glass is nice,but not the whole bottle.
Seek help fast.How about your church and faith they should
be able to help you.I am worry about you on this.
With so much talent there,we need you around.
comment by fredo on Aug 7, 2008 11:12 AM ()

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