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Update and Healing

Well I'm at the stage of my grief where I'm accepting Grandma's death, but still blubber at every little thing that reminds me of her, like "The Price Is Right." I still watch it on occasion even though it's Drew Carey instead of Bob Barker. Grandma used to love game shows, especially "The Price is Right" and "Jeopardy." "Price" strikes a chord because I remember watching it with her when I was little. Dorky little me used to yell "C'mon Down" when Johnny Olson did (yes that dates me since he died in 1985). I talked to my mom and she and my aunts all want to wait until December to do Grandma's memorial. She has been cremated, so it doesn't matter how long we wait to do the memorial. Also it's around the time PD and I will go to Idaho for Christmas. We'll just extend our stay another day. Mom's also saving a little bit of ashes for me to sprinkle in my house plant...yeah I know that sounds kind of morbid, but then I will always have a bit of her with me. Plus, I've heard that it will help strengthen the plant.
'nuff said.

posted on Oct 31, 2008 1:11 PM ()

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Really sorry to hear of your grandma. She's sitting right next to you shouting "Come on down!" Guess the cycle of life is harder on us who are left... Take care.
comment by sunlight on Nov 14, 2008 5:29 PM ()
Sorry I have stopped by for awhile. I am sorry for your loss. Are you doing better?
comment by grumpy on Nov 12, 2008 10:52 AM ()
All of my grandparents are gone and both of my parents and one sister. Sometimes, I find it helps just to hold conversations with them. It makes it seem like they are still here with me and maybe they are... I just can't see them.
comment by anniel on Nov 6, 2008 9:19 PM ()
Your grandmother's passing ends a part of your life, but a new life is ahead.
comment by redimpala on Nov 2, 2008 6:21 PM ()
I guess I'd rather enjoy the sweet memories and shed a tear than to not have anything that special, ya know. Hang in there pal.
comment by shesaidwhat on Nov 2, 2008 1:06 AM ()
My grandpa Perkins died when I was like "13 or 14". He was the "first" person I seen in a funeral home. And I loved him to death. I busted out crying the moment I seen him. I got there on the last day (before burial_.. my brothers and cousins were hurt "for sure".. but more used to that sight (they were in the funeral home days before me).. maybe they were "hiding the hurt" (like I do now).. but I couldn't that day...

Now, it's a later day, later time (I am 41, not 13). I have lost (to death) many friends, family, associates, whatever. It all "HURTS DRACO", it always will. Especially when they were close. My grandpa (and I lost another grandpa and grandma after that),, I didn't know well. I remember he always had "bright eyes" when he seen me.. he said "HI GARY" when I went to their house. I hardly knew him.. he hardly knew me... But to be honest... I think of him ALOT!!!!

I lost several great friends.. I lost other relatives.. you NEVER get used to it..

Best thing I can say... hang in.. because believe it or not.. we all go through "loss",, sucks to be sure, but I feel (Know) our lost loved ones would want us "happy" after they are gone..

Laterz dude,,, gary
comment by coincutter on Oct 31, 2008 7:33 PM ()
Glad to hear you are feeling better. Eventually you will not feel so sad. I remember watching The Price is Right in black and white and one show in particular where two contestants were pricing a speed boat. Back in the old days wasn't the format more like the showdown at the end of today's shows?
comment by troutbend on Oct 31, 2008 4:02 PM ()
comment by kristilyn3 on Oct 31, 2008 1:35 PM ()
That is so great in talking about this.The memory of your grandmother is
priceless.That is a great way to remember her.She sounds like a lovely
woman.No it is not morbid.Whatever you choose is fine.
comment by fredo on Oct 31, 2008 1:25 PM ()

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