Grown adults should not use the word "din din".
Not at any time weather there is a baby in the room or not. It totally makes my skin crawl. I am not really sure why. Maybe I had a traumatic experience that happen during a din din time that I am repressing.
Din din... Suppose to be short for what? Dinner? Dinner is only one letter longer. Stop the insanity of mother loving Din Din you jerks.
I have no other excuse for this post than total and complete irritation. There you have been warned..
Another thing I would like to throw out there NOBODY CARES WHAT YOU WERE GONNA DO! WE JUST NEED TO KNOW WHAT YOU DID!
Do not act like you are some kind of bad ass if you are not. Nothing looks worst than some "tough guy" standing around telling angry stories about some SOB that they were "gonna" punch in the face and "gonna" kick some ass and take names when in reality what you "did" was give them free cake and bow down like a servant!
I can not respect that. I can not! Not unless you bowed down then secretly slashed their tires. Did you at least spit in the cake?
I think I take offense because I have way too many stories of "Oh my God you know what I did?" so I think everyone should share in my pain.
Once in a meeting I stood up and said "Don't try to reading my Effing mind!" I can own that. I can own the fact I blew my top and took things to the next level in less than 5 seconds. I transformed that boring little meeting into a hostile work environment! That was me.
I could have done nothing. I could of developed an ulcer. I could have came home and made this family pay for the injustice of it all that I was too afraid to open my mouth. The worst thing I could have done is walk around after the fact saying "I was gonna tell them what I really thought! I was gonna let them know I was angry!"
I have some submissive bright side of the thing friends. I love it. I like their perspective on things. They are on my speed dial. When I feel crazy crawling out of my tummy and right out of my mouth. They give me the chill its all good pep talk, without EVER using the trigger words "You should calm down".
I have other angry friends that I use as fuel to the fire. The ones that want to go for the ride and burn the whole mother f-er down. They remind you "THIS WORLD IS OUT TO GET YOU!" or "HOW MUCH ARE YOU SUPPOSE TO TAKE!" They don't mind getting their hands dirty and yours too.
I don't think everyone has to be face punchers or have angry outbursts. Just be who you are. There is not need to pretend to make anyone or even yourself happy. Unless you use the word "din din". Knock it off!! Be someone else. Like the one that uses big words with the wrong meaning. I can hang with that all day long.
mutual fiend.