I've been a total bum since Friday evening. I've done nothing but sit on the couch, play on my laptop, sleep and eat. I even slept 11 1/2 hours last night. I normally sleep about 7 hours in a night.
But tomorrow I've got a busy schedule:
8:45am head to the gym
10-11am spin class
11-11:30 shower and change
11:30-noon drive to meet up with TBD
Noon-6pm date with TBD
6'ish drive across town
7pm-? dinner with my girlfriends
TBD is the guy I'm seeing right now. He's Mr.RightNow for me and we have a fling going on as neither of us are ready for anything serious. I gave him this pseudonym based on his initials and the fact that he repetitively told me that he didn't want a relationship.
He's a good guy but we want different things in the future, he's allergic to cats, wants a family and I know in my heart that I will never fall in love with him. I do however have a deep connection with him that I felt the first time I met him back in June. He told me that he too felt a connection when we met. It wasn't until November that we hooked up. I didn't see him most of December though when I was dating another guy.
I'm still open to finding Mr.Right but until then, I've got TBD.