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Are You My Father?

You wouldn’t believe the phone call I just got. Now to set this up I have to tell you that it is just after 11pm at night and I was just about to go to bed when the phone rang.

Since it was so late I thought that the only people who would call would have to be family, and with bad news too. My grandparents aren’t in the best of health so I thought something might have happened.

Instead I get this male voice asking me if I’m his father. What? I don’t think he ever said his name, but he said his mother’s name was Samantha. Now as far as I can remember I have never had a relationship with anyone named Samantha.

But this kid tells me that his mother gave him MY name as being his father. Where she got my name from, I have no idea. Don’t know how he got the phone number either, because I don’t list my first name in the phone book.

Now I should tell you that I believe that I may have a son. This was from a relationship I had over eighteen years ago. But the girl claimed that her boyfriend was the father (she cheated on him with me, yeah, I was not a good person back then) and I let it go at that. But a year or so later I met her and saw her son. I swear he looked just like I did as a kid. So I’ve always wondered if…

Well, anyway I tell this guy that I have no idea what he was talking about. Then I hear it in his voice. He says to me, “Please, I need to know if you are my father.” I can hear him pleading with me. This kid needs the truth and he thinks I have it for him.

So I asked him how old he was. He says that he’s fourteen. So I said, “Fourteen years ago would make it about 1994 or so, right? Well, I was in the Air Force stationed in Arizona at that time. Is your mother from Arizona?”

He said “No.”

So I told him that it was pretty unlikely that I could be his father. But I did talk with him for a minute or so afterwards and wished him the best of luck in finding his father.

What is so strange is I’ve been thinking about this possible son of mine quite a lot lately, and I’ve been seriously considering whether or not to pursue trying to find him and his mother. And this comes out of the blue…

Makes ya think, eh?

posted on Oct 3, 2008 9:21 PM ()

Comments:

Wow! What a strange phone call! Wow! I guess I am glad that could never happen to me...
comment by kristilyn3 on Oct 25, 2008 3:32 PM ()
glad you took the time to talk to him. butter
comment by butterfly1969 on Oct 13, 2008 7:37 PM ()
Wow. WOW. Poor kid!
comment by mrsstu on Oct 6, 2008 9:57 AM ()
That was nice of you to chat with him and clarify your past
related to him, but also clears it up for you too.

If you feel the need to sort our your past to give you some sort of peace, check it out.
comment by stiva on Oct 4, 2008 8:33 AM ()
Sometimes the universe puts people, things, signs, in front of us to lead us to another path. Maybe that's the universe telling you something. I think it was nice that you didn't just brush him off. He needed someone to talk and you were there. He'd be very lucky I think to have you as a dad. Your a good man.
comment by elfie33 on Oct 4, 2008 6:44 AM ()
that is eerie! I am glad you talked to him though and didn't just brush him off. sounds like his mom may have picked a name out of a hat. I think you should try to find your possible son, just to find out for sure.
comment by elkhound on Oct 4, 2008 6:09 AM ()

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