In previous blogs I have written about my exes so I won't go into much detail here--all influenced me in one way or another, good and/or bad!

Pepe was my first live together lover--we were in our 20s--both the same age--he was ambitious, a go-getter, a work alcoholic with goals--I was none of these things--I wouldn't appreciate him until we split.



Bernie was/is 5 years older than me--it was a very destructive relationship that ended in a very messy 'divorce' but it did get me to transactional analysis--for many years I called him my hater, not lover, which was a misnomer--he did truly love me. We were together for 7 years.



Johnny is/was 11 years younger than me--very talented--it was the case of the country boy (him) taking the city slicker (me)for what he could. We were together for 3 years.



Bill, very simply, was the love of my life--we loved each other unconditionally--we were complete opposites--after 2 years it fell apart--both of us at fault.