Oh my! Of all the conversations to have with my daughter at 9:45 at night, this was not one I expected but when they ask one needs to be ready. My daughter is going through the developmental stage and is most uncomfortable about it. I feel really bad for her. She just doesn't want it to happen and doesn't have the choice. She is developing hair and breasts and body odor and discharge and she is only 10. I cursed her with early development and feel so bad that she has to deal with the uncertainties of growing up on top of divorce. I answered every question she had and they were more than I bargained for and open me told her more than she was ready for. I tried to comfort her in the knowledge that boys go through changes too and the only thing I could come up with was pubic hair, voice changes and wet dreams. Try back peddling out of that one. I couldn't and told her about masturbation and sex and had her in tears. My poor little girl! I am not cut out to be a mom! I am too open for my own good. I guess making up for what knowledge I received..."if you have sex, you get pregnant." Now, how do I do damage control on this one? My poor child and how do I tell her Dad and what will he say? Oh my, oh my, oh my! Me and my big mouth!