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Health & Fitness > Pay it Forward Does Not Apply to Colds!
 

Pay it Forward Does Not Apply to Colds!

For the past month or so we have been passing back and forth sicknesses. It is between my family and my adopted family, who babysit Kota after school. I think I may have started it when I had strep throat. I got over that and now have a head cold. Katie, the babysitter, has brochitis and laryngitis! Kota was sick last week and the doc did a strep throat test. I guess it came back positive because she called in a prescription for an antibiotic for him.

Today is pie making day for me. I make a pumpkin pie with a cream cheese layer on the bottom. It is to die for! And the one thing the family requests that I make. Me and the boy will be heading out to walmart shortly to get our supplies. One advantage this time of year, they extend our 10% discount to include food items. We get this discount from November through New Year's.

I ran into a co-worker of mine last week who has been out on medical leave for months. I knew she had problems with her knee but I did not realize how bad it was. She is not able to walk so she was in one of those motorized carts walmart has. We stopped to talk while I was working and she filled me in on her issues. She desperately needs a knee replacement BUT because she is only 36 no doctor will do the surgery. She has to take vicodan at night just so she is able to sleep. She is terrified of becoming addicted to them. This lady was always a fun loving, happy person. To see her so depressed just breaks my heart. We were both in tears as she talked. As I started to walk away to get back to work she held out her arms for a hug. I gave her a big bear hug and she whispered, I love you Mary.

I can understand the doctor's point. She is so young that the knee replacement would not last the rest of her life. But seriously, she is too young to be in a wheelchair! She can't do anything. She says she stays in her bedroom because it is easier for her to sit on the bed than a regular chair or sofa.

I am sorry to ramble on about this but it affected me so bad. I did not see the friend I once knew. The one I joked with and picked on. I saw a broken spirit. If this is truly the season for miracles, I wish one for her.

posted on Nov 24, 2010 6:31 AM ()

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Hiya Mary, whatcha been doing? Did you have a good New Year? I do hope so. We had a quiet one, stayed in and watched tv. My next door neighbours let a load of fireworks off - I am so glad that Wolfie wasn't here - he would have had a cardiac! Chloe, just barked at them - such a different temperament.
My elder son and his wife (pretty-in-pink, from blogster days) miraculously found out that they are to become parents in May (natural conception - the I.V.F. didn't work for them and so they had 'given up). Well, she had her 6 month scan on Monday and they are going to have a little boy
I am sooooooo happy for them - funny though, they had given up on becoming parents and then . . . . . .

Keep well Mary, love and kisses to Dakota too
comment by febreze on Jan 12, 2011 6:25 AM ()
that is wonderful news about the baby! they must be so excited! I will try and update my blog now. lots going on, just not sure if it's good or bad.
reply by elkhound on Jan 12, 2011 6:57 AM ()


Wishing you and all the family, A Very, Happy, Healthy and VERY VERY PROSPEROUS New Year

comment by febreze on Dec 31, 2010 12:23 PM ()


This is for Dakota :
reply by febreze on Dec 31, 2010 2:28 PM ()
thank you! I wish the same to your wonderful family!
reply by elkhound on Dec 31, 2010 2:18 PM ()
Sending a bouquet of smiles for you, Mary. Hope your Thanksgiving was a tasty love fest. Sending prayers for your friend, too!
comment by marta on Dec 4, 2010 12:22 PM ()
Hiya Mary, I am sorry for your poor health, it is so hard to get rid of these bugs at this time of year - especially when they 'bounce' back and forth off close family members (I speak from experience) Keep warm.
Is there any way, that someone in a government office (allbeit local), could come to that poor girls aid? I know so little about the procedures in the US.
It is awful that she has to suffer like that, merely because of her age
I have never had pumpkin pie - sounds delicious - even though it is bedtime, I could really enjoy something likethat right now - I will make do witha bowl of cereal I think
g'night Mary, love to Dakota x
comment by augusta on Nov 30, 2010 6:29 PM ()
Doctors can be so goofy! So they might have to replace the knee again in twenty years. At least she did not spend that time in a wheelchair or in pain! Hope you and your family get well soon.
comment by dragonflyby on Nov 28, 2010 1:36 PM ()
Oh, that poor girl!I can understand a doctor's reluctance to perform replacement surgery, given her age, but surely taking daily Vicodin and not walking isn't the right solution!

Hope you feel better soon.
comment by juliansmom on Nov 25, 2010 4:15 PM ()
it is really heart breaking. She is just one of those people you love to be around and I hate to see her so down. and my cold seems to have travelled south in my body. ugh!
reply by elkhound on Nov 27, 2010 3:43 AM ()
I feel your pain Mary. I'm soooo sick with a chest cold...which I got from Kev. Hoping I"m going to feel slightly better tomorrow. Back to bed I go!
comment by firststarisee on Nov 24, 2010 3:14 PM ()
I hope you are feeling better gwen! it's just crazy how this cold keeps getting passed back and forth. I am thinking of putting us all on mega doses of vitamin C!
reply by elkhound on Nov 27, 2010 3:42 AM ()
That is sad... there is nothing they can do for her since she is young? Makes no sense to me. Has she gone to a variety of doctors? That should be her first step!!! I hope she finds out something to help her.
I also hope you and your family start feeling better! Your pie sounds delish! Although I don't like pumpkin, I do love cream cheese.
comment by kristilyn3 on Nov 24, 2010 7:17 AM ()
she is going for another opinion, hopefully they will do the operation. it is just a shame for someone so young to have no answers.
now i really need to get off my butt and go do my shopping.
reply by elkhound on Nov 24, 2010 7:55 AM ()

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