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Big Decision

Ted and I are wrestling with a big decision. My son and his wife and children want us to move into their neighborhood, in Midwest City. We know a lot of people there and the proximity to TAFB is a big plus since Ted is disabled and we get to use the club, the golf course and all the rest of the good stuff. Also, it will be wonderful to be close to Bob and Ellie and the children.

However, we love the farm and the freedom and space it affords us. I am not too worried about falling real estate prices as whatever we buy will be priced cheaper also. We are worried about selling it and the lack of mortgage money available to a prospective buyer. We know that it will take a while to sell. In the meantime a big garage sale is on the agenda. We are trying to declutter. I am a packrat and so is Ted.

One of my best friends is coming for lunch tomorrow. She doesn't eat breakfast so she is always ravenously hungry by eleven. I am having a chicken casserole with a vegetable dish of squash and sweet red peppers sauteed in olive oil
I have fresh rosemary to sprinkle on top. We will probably have fudge for dessert or orange sherbet and vanilla ice cream. I will make cornbread too as she loves it.



posted on May 12, 2008 9:50 PM ()

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Surely there is some middle ground between staying on your farm and moving into the city! That is a major shift in your surroundings! Maybe there is a middle sized village closer to the city, that has a hospital and a few amenities that will make you comfortable, like a good library, a farmers market with fresh vegetables and fruit, think long and hard about moving to the city. Think about what you will need in ten years, that will help you decide. Being closer to the people you love is a good thing, and so is being someplace you want to live. I'll be praying that you find your path.
comment by thestephymore on May 15, 2008 9:10 AM ()
I think it's a good idea to put it on the market and see what happens. You can afford to be picky about the buyer's qualifications and your asking price. I agree that the time to make the move might be while you are still feeling spry enough for it. Maybe there is a place where you would be moving that has a big enough lot or on a greenbelt that you feel you are almost in the country. Getting away from being tied down by farm animals to the 'club' life would be very liberating for you and Ted.
comment by troutbend on May 14, 2008 1:30 PM ()
Know the situation. People wonder why I don't downsize. But I can't bear to leave my home. I'm still young and able enough to handle all the chores. You have a tough decision to make.
comment by solitaire on May 14, 2008 7:30 AM ()
Your quandary is one we'll face sooner or later. Why do all coins have to have two sides???
comment by looserobes on May 13, 2008 1:04 PM ()
The meal sounds great.That is tough to make a desicision.
But surely you will work something out.
comment by fredo on May 13, 2008 9:57 AM ()
Sounds lovely! I would be like you. I live on a 55 acre farm and enjoy the peace of country living as well as the privacy. Hubby would have to really entice me to move from my little piece of paradise.
comment by angiedw on May 13, 2008 8:29 AM ()
yummy lunch!
Moving is great.... I love it! Best of luck with your decision!!!!
comment by kristilyn3 on May 13, 2008 6:28 AM ()
Your lunch sounds so good!! I hope you and Ted make the best decision over all. I was raised in the country and like that over the city but, we do live in the city so to speak even though it is in the suburbs everything is growing so fast around here. We are pack-rats too and have been un-cluttering around here too.
comment by texastar on May 12, 2008 10:55 PM ()

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