Ok, you explained it all, but what's important is that all the dates have pretty much worked out to make a fine, reasonable schedule that will suit your wishes, too.
I timed things so well, almost. I went out with family for Father's Day dinner and made it home after only missing half an hour of the Tony's. I would check on the basketball scores during commercial breaks, and the game was still on after the Tony's were over, so I got to see the rest of the game. I didn't get everything you mentioned accomplished, but I did get the biggest part of most accomplished.
He sounds a bit elated, doesn't he?
Snoopy sure does tell it like it is in this cartoon!
I wish your daughter a very happy birthday and tell her I said so! You have a wonderful daughter, possibly because she has a wonderful mom!
It's called faith...if you truly believe in God, then you will truly believe in yourself. There is a light waiting after every dark moment.
I believe I have read a post by a woman in love!
Waaaaaaaay toooooooo funnnnnnnnny!!! Sounds a lot like the days when I was working at the travel agency...what some people would talk about!
I have an explanation for why I was up so late...and why it's like that just about every night...that would be drawing in all kinds of things that make up the reason, probably because the reason itself doesn't quite express the level of intensity of the reason. I am overwhelmed by a multitude of things that are quickly getting way too far ahead of me, so being where I want to be (more on top of things, with some level of control) is becoming an UNreality. So, I just keep going and going and going (like the Energizer Bunny) but I still haven't even started on some things, finished other things, or caught up with anything else. I usually go to bed when I just can not stay up any longer...when the need to sleep becomes too strong.
Cox is in Bristol, but I have Full Channel and it's necessary for us to stay with Full Channel. It's a long story why, but the bottom line is that Full Channel will probably remain our only option until who knows when, maybe forever.
It looks to me like some cat might have the guy in the third cartoon's teeth, too!
Congrats on the evaluation results! The itsy bitsy spider ran across the desk. Out came the stapler to put his soul to rest. Out came his tiny rollerblades and he got away. So the itsy bitsy spider can stalk elfie again today.
I could read that list over and over again, it is that beautiful. The words are coming from your heart, I can feel them. Don't lose touch with it all...let that help you through anything because strength and a true belief in love and life are even needed in good times in order to sustain.
A great list to work on and with...and you were being honest when you put the list together. Good for you! There are a few things on that list that I struggle with and continue to have to work on, but that doesn't make me a bad person, does it? Would you call me a ##### or a total loser if I have a problem with one of those things but keep trying and am making progress? Then, you really shouldn't do it to yourself, either. Sometimes you have to know yourself and see yourself, but it doesn't hurt to look at yourself through other's eyes, too. (Even bad eyes are ok sometimes, because then you can determine THEIR problem...and see it isn't you.)
I don't know if this will help at all, but my parents continued to help my then "soon to be ex" by giving him rides when he needed transportation, by listening to him when he needed to talk, etc. Sometimes they were just trying to be "rational" when they were defending anything about him, but they were not truly taking sides or not being supportive of me. It seemed like that, though...and it wasn't until much later on that I realized the position they were in and why they were trying to at least be a little understanding of him and his side. So, you see, it does happen.
I don't know what the laws are in your state, but I do not understand why you can not sell the house...hopefully for a profit. No, neither one of you will necessarily get anything out of the sale because the money will have to go on the mortgage...maybe all or most will be paid off? (In RI, everything is 50/50 for whatever exists/existed within the years of marriage, so any unpaid mortgage becomes an equal responsibility of both parties unless a different stipulation is drawn up and AGREED to in court, usually at the time of the divorce. If the sale of the house takes place before the divorce date, the responsibility may fall on one person... depending on the agreement signed at the time of securing the mortgage... but as of the court date, the other person is often required to pay back half of the total amount paid out, to pay half of any remaining balance, and/or to pay off the entire amount if equal to anything already paid.) So, get all your paperwork and know exactly what the story is and find out exactly what options, if any, are available to you now or when they will be available. Knowing all of these facts may help you decide what really is the best thing to do.
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