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Home with the Family

The situation at my home in Colorado is at a point where flood recovery things are happening around me, but it will be some time before my specific problems can be addressed. I've done everything I can to reach that point, and it is nice to get away from it all for a break: away from conserving fuel all the time, and worrying about whether my driveway is going to collapse into the river if there is too much snow, and looking at the destroyed yards that I can do nothing about right now.

A couple of weeks ago, I sent a greeting card to my husband: "Even though you don't get to do all you want for Thanksgiving, Think of those people who can't even be with their family." Open it up and it says "Lucky Bastards."

We don't really mean this, but we do. Oh, don't get me wrong, I glad to spend the holiday with him, and we don't mind including my cousin Betsy, who would otherwise be alone. She always has a great time, and remembers from one year to the next what we do for her. But if we were near enough to his family that we'd have to go over there, I wouldn't be happy.

It is nice to be here with my cats. Eloise is the one you know the most about. She came here after the flood, and stayed while I went back to Colorado. She misses me when I'm gone, and it took awhile for her to accept me again, but now we're pals again.

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Chitty, the neighborhood cat was a little spooked to have me show up, but he got over it. Eloise doesn't like him in the house, but they are able to co-exist most of the time. She is much less upset about it when I am here.

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Chitty's fur is short, fine, and soft, like a rabbit. He is a neighborhood cat with no known home. He comes and goes a lot, waking up Mr. Troutbend in the middle of the night to go out.




posted on Nov 26, 2013 7:39 PM ()

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That cleanup job sounds overwhelming.
comment by jjoohhnn on Nov 28, 2013 5:10 PM ()
In the big picture of the area, it is a huge job. As time goes by, things seem to work out for people to their benefit, and as we gain perspective we realize it's counterproductive to think of the way it used to be: we'll just get used to the new look. I found out the US Forest Service probably won't clear the debris from the many areas along the river that they own, and that's made me realize it's not that big of a priority, so why should I worry about it so much.
reply by troutbend on Feb 15, 2014 12:55 PM ()
China was horrible to us when we were gone.
comment by elderjane on Nov 28, 2013 4:18 PM ()
When I'm gone all day and come home after dark, Eloise acts like burglars have come to steal her.
reply by troutbend on Feb 15, 2014 12:51 PM ()
You need to vet and enjoy life there.Like jon says Take a day off and pamper your self.
comment by fredo on Nov 27, 2013 8:01 AM ()
Tomorrow being Black Friday is a good time to stay home and rest up.
reply by troutbend on Nov 28, 2013 8:49 AM ()
Last week when I spent the entire day down in Columbus, I came home to hungry cats, even though their bowls still had half the food I left them. Also, Quincy sat on the living room floor with his back to my TV chair for an hour. He wouldn't respond to my begging him to come to my lap. They do let us know how we have hurt their 'feelings.'
comment by jondude on Nov 27, 2013 6:33 AM ()
Oh, that's funny about Quincy. Cats can act so aloof and cool about things when all is routine, so it's surprising when they indicate they've noticed our absence.
reply by troutbend on Nov 28, 2013 8:42 AM ()
You have done a lot of driving. Relax. Take the day off.
comment by jondude on Nov 27, 2013 6:30 AM ()
I am really good at relaxing, never have been one of those who does things just to stay in motion. The only reason I do so much when I'm alone there in Colorado is that I have no choice. I suppose the constant motion people also think they have no choice.
reply by troutbend on Nov 28, 2013 8:44 AM ()
If only family were like animals--feed them and they will leave you alone sleeping the rest of the day away!
You have me confused--which is easy todo--are you in Nevada or Colorado???
comment by greatmartin on Nov 26, 2013 9:38 PM ()
Nevada now.
reply by troutbend on Nov 28, 2013 8:45 AM ()
Angel wasn't sleeping with DH while I was gone. I told him she was mad at him for taking me away.
If you brush those kitties, save me the fur.
comment by maggie on Nov 26, 2013 8:56 PM ()
Okay, will save fur. Eloise pretends she likes to be brushed, but that's only as long as it just a little bit on the top side of her. If we get personal and start working on her tummy and other parts that really need it, she becomes a coiled spring.
reply by troutbend on Nov 28, 2013 8:47 AM ()
Eloise was showing you that she was not happy with your absence. Once when Ed and I were gone from dawn to midnight, the cats, at that time Brunswick and Sniff, wouldn't talk to us when we got home.
comment by tealstar on Nov 26, 2013 8:00 PM ()
You'd think cats wouldn't notice what with all the napping they do, and they don't fawn all over us when we ARE home.
reply by troutbend on Nov 28, 2013 8:48 AM ()

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