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Miss Betty Jean

I started out intending to write about Miss Betty Jean in the last blog but got sidetracked by "Specimen." Across the road ftom the clinic I noticed Miss Betty Jean's house abandoned and overgrown with weeds. This gave me a pang. I used to like to drive by  her neat white house with the neat fence around it, flowers planted in the yard, a swing on the front porch.
Miss Betty Jean was the postmaster for years in our town. She never learned to drive, and walked to work, which wasn't far. She was a spinster, an "old maid" who took care of her mother until she died. There were rumors no one dared speak aloud, sotto voce, that Miss Betty Jean was illigitmate, and that she had a trace of colored blood. She was always aloof, not a friendly sort of person; probably pride and fear of hurt feelings made her that way. She kept her own counsel, and lived an impeccable life.
She was tall and lanky and had a long thin nose, and kept her hair and person neat and clean. She stayed active long after she retired, and kept her house and yard pretty to look at. I don't know who inheirited her place, no one has lived there since she died, but it's a shame to see mulberry bushes as tall as the house in her flower beds, and the house beginning to get that saggy look unloved houses have.
She would be distressed if she could see the fence falling down and the yard obscured with overgrown bushes and weeds. I could still see the swing on the porch, gently swaying in the wind, as if her spirit still hung around her house, loving something her physical form could no longer inhabit.
Susil

posted on June 5, 2008 9:30 AM ()

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Your reminiscences are lovely Sue. Sad about her house and
one wonders why it is left to rot.
comment by tealstar on June 14, 2008 4:36 AM ()
very sad, and yes I think we all have someone like this.
comment by ducky on June 8, 2008 6:58 PM ()
Hi Sue. Remember me?
comment by solitaire on June 8, 2008 6:23 AM ()
There was such a lady in our town. We were her neighbors for twenty some years. She spent Christmas and Easter with her sister, who ignored her the rest of the time, but she was the neighborhood grandma, and took her morning constitutional every morning, greeting all the dog walkers, speaking to people in their yards. Somebody always had her for Thanksgiving and New Years evening.She was retired from the Phone Company, and belonged to the Pioneers Club.
She got sick and her sister took her to a hospital way South of here, almost in Chicago. Nobody ever said a word to us about her again.
One day a moving truck puled up and took everything from the house. Her sister was there with a real estate broker.
There was a "For Sale" sign, and a new family with young children moved in about a month later. They made the flowers nice again, but got rid of the vegetable garden in the back yard and put up a swing set.
It's like Miss Mary was never here. A lot of us miss her.
comment by thestephymore on June 8, 2008 6:23 AM ()
Great post Sue. We all know a Miss Betty Jea n.
comment by elderjane on June 6, 2008 2:30 PM ()
Oh, how sad.
comment by catdancer on June 6, 2008 1:55 PM ()
As I go here and there I see a lot of houses that
are abanded and going to peices. I often wonder why
no one takes care of it, or sell it or give it to a
relative, rather than let it sit there and rot.
comment by larryb on June 5, 2008 7:46 PM ()
That brought a lump into my throat. I love the southern tradition of placing "Miss" in front of people's names. We lived next to a family from Mississippi in Texas and their children always called me Miss Joan and my daughter, Miss Holly. Now, Holly is passing that on to her two girls as well.
comment by redimpala on June 5, 2008 3:45 PM ()

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