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My Rant for Today!

Lately, I have been thinking a lot about ending my blogging experience.  So, if I drop off the map one of these days, don't be surprised.
Here on MyBloggers, I have someone from outside the MyBloggers world who stalks my account like the desperate person she is.  There's nothing I can do except make this a site "for friends only," which I don't want to do because I have far more readers than just those on MyBloggers.
However, because of this one individual, I always have to be careful what I say, because she is just looking for anything she can to discredit me.   That limits me in that I cannot express myself as honestly and freely as I would like.  In short, I have to censor myself.
Over on Blogster, we have the fanatics with whom no one can argue constructively.  They quickly lapse into filthy language and name calling because they are not well-educated enough to present a logical, fact-based argument. 
I have tried for two years to refute their wild suppositions wih fact-based rebuttals, along with the sources of those facts.  I am a logical person.  I do not argue with facts;  it is akin to arguing with a cancelled check over a past due bill, which I actually had someone do once.  But they do!!!
I really feel I have made no headway with these people.  So, what is the point?  It is certainly not because I love the site, because it is slow, cumbersome, and heavily censored.
Well, that's my rant for the day.  I wish I could say I feel better, but I don't.  Nothing is going to change because I ranted about it.  I will still have my stalker here, and I will never dent the fanatics' mind-set.
Again, I may just say "To hell with it!" one of these days and disappear forever from the cyber world.


posted on Feb 28, 2011 11:14 AM ()

Comments:

I think Eddie can block someone if you ask him to do it, Joan.
comment by marta on Mar 3, 2011 5:10 AM ()
That's good to know, Marta. I was not aware of that.
reply by redimpala on Mar 3, 2011 12:22 PM ()
We all want to be liked, and it hurts when we are "bad-mouthed". Don't allow one person to dictate your life. We (I!) want you to continue posting. We may not agree on every thing, but I enjoy your blogs. Please, please, don't stop!!
comment by solitaire on Mar 2, 2011 6:09 AM ()
You guys actually make me feel as though I have something to say, which I do; but half the time I can't say it. I just need some time right now to step back. I doubt I could quit if I tried. I have this insatiable need to reach out and touch someone.
reply by redimpala on Mar 2, 2011 9:32 PM ()
Hear, hear!!
reply by jerms on Mar 2, 2011 6:51 AM ()
While I completely understand your frustration, I really bothers me that you would allow morons to silence your voice. You will never convince the vocal ranters, but your words reach many more people than the one who comment and insult you with half-based ideas and reeking bias. Those idiots help you make your point just by comparison. But what is important is what you say and the intelligent way you say it. Please don't stop. Rest a bit, and carry on.

As for the other personal issue, why don't you simply block this person here? Why put up with it?
comment by marta on Mar 1, 2011 8:47 PM ()
We don't have a blocking capability here. I know that many others do read what I have to say on the issues and that is why I keep going back time and time again , putting up with their abuse. I know that the voice of reason must always fight against the voices of tyranny.
reply by redimpala on Mar 2, 2011 9:36 PM ()
Yes I do Joan, it really upsets me too because when you fight fire with fire you are reduced to their level and treated as though you are one of them. I have a real bug-bear about being perma-banned from blogster because it puts me in the same category as those people and I really am not like them. I just got very fed-up with being treated so badly and stood up for myself. The people with the ban hammer didnt take the time or the trouble to figure it out about me and treated me with the same contempt. It sucks!!!!
comment by aussiegirl on Feb 28, 2011 8:17 PM ()
We would all miss you if you left. Don't let the cow rain on your parade.
comment by elderjane on Feb 28, 2011 5:47 PM ()
Some days are just "down" days. Hopefully, I'll have a different outlook in a day or two.
reply by redimpala on Feb 28, 2011 7:12 PM ()
you know, for every one person who doesnt like you or doesnt agree with you for one reason or another, there are ten to twenty that do. You should focus on them and ignore/forget the idiots who choose to give you a hard time. Those of us who love reading your articles and interacting with you will miss you very much if you leave. Dont let the few idiots do that to you and to us.
comment by aussiegirl on Feb 28, 2011 5:31 PM ()
Maria, you have been at the brunt of some of their filth as have I. I just get so discouraged sometimes that they choose this avenue, and you know what happens if you try to fight "fire with fire." I have to exhibit the patience of Job with these people, even though they are all fanatics who don't deserve it.
reply by redimpala on Feb 28, 2011 7:11 PM ()
You know, ignoring her is the absolutely best approach. She doesn't deserve a reaction of any kind, nor your cautious self-censoring.
comment by jerms on Feb 28, 2011 5:29 PM ()
She gets no reaction, but I am careful what I say because I don't want to provide her with even a hint that she might try to use against me.
reply by redimpala on Feb 28, 2011 7:09 PM ()
What a shame, there's nothing worse than to feel someone is watching your every word in order to get ammunition against you.
comment by troutbend on Feb 28, 2011 5:15 PM ()
Laura, you hit the nail squarely on its head because that is exactly what she is doing. I have had her come to my site as often as three times in one day. It is really overkill.
reply by redimpala on Feb 28, 2011 7:08 PM ()
'I always have to be careful what I say'---excuse me M'am--unless they can harm your family screw her and being careful what you say--and don't you think of going anywhere--I learn from you and how many 75 year old men tell you that?!?!?
comment by greatmartin on Feb 28, 2011 12:53 PM ()
Martin, you just paid me the highest compliment....that you learn from me. I always try so hard to be honest, factual, and entertaining. I don't know that I always succeed, but that is my goal.
reply by redimpala on Feb 28, 2011 7:07 PM ()
I feel the same frustration you do here on MyBloggers, to be honest with you, basically because my whole worldview is completely opposed to that of the majority on this site. Things that are very important to me don't get blogged about, simply because I get so irritated at the caustic remarks and unbridled ridicule they generate. Somehow, though, I always keep coming back.
comment by jerms on Feb 28, 2011 12:05 PM ()
Just curious because I don't have the same reaction to mybloggers that you have--I find people here to be civil, not argumentative, and willing to discuss everything and anything--maybe I haven't read your posts but certainly will.
reply by greatmartin on Feb 28, 2011 12:55 PM ()
We do have a number of people here who are either openly agnostic or atheistic. But even they are kinder to Christians than the fanatics over on Blogster.
reply by redimpala on Feb 28, 2011 12:24 PM ()
Is this the person that you been having problem with?
I am sorry this this one individual is causing you some problem.
This should not get in the way of your writing.Just erased her from your mind and continued the good job that you are doing.
You do not need this,and again kind of sad to let this bother you.
Hope that you are not losing any sleep over this?
It is too bad that this has to be bothersome for you.
Not sure what the cure is.All I can say is forget it.
Have a piece of chocolate.You will be fine there CJ.I know that you will.
Heads up and continued with life.
We all have these days.
Sure Martin has plenty of them.He can help you in some way.


A big(((((Hug)))))))))))for you.A something.
comment by fredo on Feb 28, 2011 11:33 AM ()
I don't let her bother me. At the same time, I don't want to hand her any ammunition either. This is a highly personal matter rather than a political one.
reply by redimpala on Feb 28, 2011 12:25 PM ()

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