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The Friday Report from Dallas

Not a lot to report.  The housing renovation continues; Bailey has been at Church Beach Camp in Florida all week and Kenzie will be gone this weekend for church camp for the first time.  She is so excited even if it is only for a weekend.
I have not been working on the house this week.  I have ulcerative colitis, which flares up when I least expect it.  It hit me Monday evening.  Went back to see my doctor Tuesday and now I am back on my medication again.  I had my first attack over twenty years ago.  I was told then that there is no cure and that it would flare on me from time to time.  The last two attacks I had put me in the hospital.  So far, this one hasn't got that bad.  
Stress is the biggest trigger for me.  Though we were almost certain Jim's cancer had spread, we waited for the official test results.  The new spots on his lung are malignant.  I found that out Monday; that afternoon, Holly and I had a huge disagreement.  Tuesday, I was sick.  I had been fine for nearly two years.  I get complacent and forget how quickly it can hit me.
Mother-daughter relationships can be hard sometimes.   I hate fighting with either of my daughters.  Kenna and I rarely have a bad word; but Holly and I are so much alike that we sometimes butt heads.   It's always over something that doesn't amount to anything.
We'll work it out.  I just asked her after I got sick to give me time for calm and quiet...that we would talk out the problem later.  She has respected that.  I have been resting and sleeping a lot, which is the only thing I can do...that and take my medicine until the attack subsides.  I did go run a couple of errands today.  I am feeling better.
That's all for now...more later.  Have a great weekend!

posted on June 22, 2012 5:59 PM ()

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Some of the blame goes on that blessed wallpaper. But seriously, I'm so sorry about your brother. Hope your recovery is quick.
comment by troutbend on June 26, 2012 8:05 PM ()
Hope you get better soon!!
comment by jerms on June 25, 2012 8:22 PM ()
well Joan your health comes first.Your daughters will be around.You need to think of oneself.
This is not being selfish,but need to care and and no need to worry about them.
They need to worry about their mother.Good luck and take care.
comment by fredo on June 23, 2012 5:56 AM ()
Thanks, Fredo. That is what I am doing. Just trying to take care of myself.
reply by redimpala on June 23, 2012 9:35 AM ()
So sorry to hear of your illness, etc. Hang in there.
comment by solitaire on June 23, 2012 5:02 AM ()
Thank you, Randy. Life can be a real bummer sometimes. Good friends help.
reply by redimpala on June 23, 2012 9:38 AM ()
Joan, I am so sorry that you are ill and I know this is painful. Linda and
I had a stormy time when she was young but now we agree not to disagree and
it very peaceful. She has been tremendously supportive now that all the men
in my life are unhealthy. You and Holly will be pals again in a few days.
comment by elderjane on June 23, 2012 4:11 AM ()
I know this thing with Holly will calm down. Unfortunately, the problem with my brother is only going to get worse. Since I went straight to the doctor the minute the symptoms appeared, I am doing better. Still have the pain, but not as bad and the bleeding has stopped. Thank you for your kind words.
reply by redimpala on June 23, 2012 9:37 AM ()
Take care--rest--relax--mothers and grandmothers are not allowed to get sick--didn't you read your original contract??? It doesn't change due to age!!!
comment by greatmartin on June 22, 2012 7:14 PM ()
I know it's in the contract! I'm trying to fight through it!!
reply by redimpala on June 22, 2012 8:14 PM ()

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