Checked out your site.... seems to be either men abusing women, or guys who want
to bash gays... somewhat unappetizing... I guess I've known several hundred
same-sex-oriented people, and none of them wanted to be a slave, nor to be told
they were sorry-ass faggots. Not too keen on the subtext of your site... I'd
have no problem if it was S&M among consenting adults regardless of gender, but
all this verbal abuse seems gratuitous... you've lost me.
Which site? Did you
check out? Raunchy People dot com or my own personal blog site
mmmhollywould.com? I ask because they are completely different sites. Raunchy
people is a site to promote ladies and men who belong to groups I own. If that
was the one you forgot mistresses which to some might be women who abuse men and
you have to keep it in the realm of suspension of disbelief.
I have a lot of different
types of calls and some are your run of the mill basic domination submissive
calls as well as sneezing calls and this is what most are but I also do very
niche calls. It is more the niche calls I am wanting to talk about here because
the others I perform to what ever standard my caller wishes me to and I am very
capable of doing the things they request of me. It is the niche calls that are
a bit different and will help to explain Johnny as well.
The reason I say I am
capable of doing is because I actually do the things my callers ask but there
are calls where that cannot be done. An example of this would be my niche fetish
hentai. Hentai is adult images based on anime where a lot of things go on with
aliens, tentacles, machines, wangs with teeth and maybe bigger than the
receiver. None of this can really happen but for a moment when my callers are on
the phone with me it can. They hear my voice doing everything they want in our
minds eye. This is why phone is even tops over cam because theater of the mind
is really so much better than cam or television or popping in a video. I am
totally customizable audio fantasy.
Which leads to Johnny,
his callers are all into edge play as are some of mine. The creed of the BDSM
world is safe sane an consensual and in most BDSM relationships there is an
element of edge-play Edge-play is when you push the envelope of this creed.
Examples of edge-play are breath play, blood play, abduction (consensual), knife
play, gun play and on and on.
The difference here is
the same as with my callers his callers call to be verbally abused by a straight
man or worse but because they have called the element of abuse has already been
taken away. It is consensual and they are on the phone. While he does do live
shows they are not nearly what is described in his calls considering he has
callers that want them to kill them. I must also mention his live shows rarely
involve men that is mostly restricted to private sessions.
Now to address you
concerns and observations, it is consensual BDSM the very nature of how callers
come to Me, Johnny and or anyone else is consensual. They must dial the phone.
They must enter their credit card to verify their age and then be connected. No
one has forced them to do anything. Verbal humiliation is a huge part of BDSM
and often times and expected and necessary aspect. When you add to that to the
fact that we are on the phone what more can their be but verbal (unless of
course it is one of my callers having me do stuff) I cannot relate abuse to
consensual sex no mater what words a person likes to be called be they demeaning
to their sexuality, race, religion, creed, hell to their very being, it is
ultimately what they want.
I find it ironic that you
would say “... I guess I've known several hundred same-sex-oriented people,
and none of them wanted to be a slave, nor to be told they were sorry-ass
faggots.†When in fact it was the gay leather community that has shaped the
BDSM world into what it is today and that there are a plethora of gay male
slaves and as I said verbal humiliation is common place in any bdsm relationship
as it is a form of ego reduction and egolessness is a state which most
submissives strive to achieve. So it is interesting that you have never met one
because I have met many just at munches and Johnny has over six hundred callers
wanting exactly that, extreme verbal humiliation.
I just want to add that
while the gay leather community is responsible in many ways for shaping the BDSM
community as a whole I am not part of the BDSM community because I think their
protocol is out dated and does not apply to a true dominant male .A true
dominant male makes his own rules and does not conform to that of others. Just a
random thought! J
Good day to ya!
I wanted to add that this is taken right from he Wikipedia definition of
erotic humiliation:
For some people, activities such as name-calling are a way of achieving
ego
reduction or getting over
sexual inhibitions. For example, between gay people, terms usually
associated with
homophobia
may be used, such as "faggot".