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Bdsm and the Gay Leathermen





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Checked out your site.... seems to be either men abusing women, or guys who want
to bash gays... somewhat unappetizing... I guess I've known several hundred
same-sex-oriented people, and none of them wanted to be a slave, nor to be told
they were sorry-ass faggots. Not too keen on the subtext of your site... I'd
have no problem if it was S&M among consenting adults regardless of gender, but
all this verbal abuse seems gratuitous... you've lost me.


Which site? Did you
check out? Raunchy People dot com or my own personal blog site
mmmhollywould.com? I ask because they are completely different sites. Raunchy
people is a site to promote ladies and men who belong to groups I own. If that
was the one you forgot mistresses which to some might be women who abuse men and
you have to keep it in the realm of suspension of disbelief.


I have a lot of different
types of calls and some are your run of the mill basic domination submissive
calls as well as sneezing calls and this is what most are but I also do very
niche calls. It is more the niche calls I am wanting to talk about here because
the others I perform to what ever standard my caller wishes me to and I am very
capable of doing the things they request of me. It is the niche calls that are
a bit different and will help to explain Johnny as well.


The reason I say I am
capable of doing is because I actually do the things my callers ask but there
are calls where that cannot be done. An example of this would be my niche fetish
hentai. Hentai is adult images based on anime where a lot of things go on with
aliens, tentacles, machines, wangs with teeth and maybe bigger than the
receiver. None of this can really happen but for a moment when my callers are on
the phone with me it can. They hear my voice doing everything they want in our
minds eye. This is why phone is even tops over cam because theater of the mind
is really so much better than cam or television or popping in a video. I am
totally customizable audio fantasy.


Which leads to Johnny,
his callers are all into edge play as are some of mine. The creed of the BDSM
world is safe sane an consensual and in most BDSM relationships there is an
element of edge-play Edge-play is when you push the envelope of this creed.
Examples of edge-play are breath play, blood play, abduction (consensual), knife
play, gun play and on and on.


The difference here is
the same as with my callers his callers call to be verbally abused by a straight
man or worse but because they have called the element of abuse has already been
taken away. It is consensual and they are on the phone. While he does do live
shows they are not nearly what is described in his calls considering he has
callers that want them to kill them. I must also mention his live shows rarely
involve men that is mostly restricted to private sessions.


Now to address you
concerns and observations, it is consensual BDSM the very nature of how callers
come to Me, Johnny and or anyone else is consensual. They must dial the phone.
They must enter their credit card to verify their age and then be connected. No
one has forced them to do anything. Verbal humiliation is a huge part of BDSM
and often times and expected and necessary aspect. When you add to that to the
fact that we are on the phone what more can their be but verbal (unless of
course it is one of my callers having me do stuff) I cannot relate abuse to
consensual sex no mater what words a person likes to be called be they demeaning
to their sexuality, race, religion, creed, hell to their very being, it is
ultimately what they want.


I find it ironic that you
would say “... I guess I've known several hundred same-sex-oriented people,
and none of them wanted to be a slave, nor to be told they were sorry-ass
faggots.”
When in fact it was the gay leather community that has shaped the
BDSM world into what it is today and that there are a plethora of gay male
slaves and as I said verbal humiliation is common place in any bdsm relationship
as it is a form of ego reduction and egolessness is a state which most
submissives strive to achieve. So it is interesting that you have never met one
because I have met many just at munches and Johnny has over six hundred callers
wanting exactly that, extreme verbal humiliation.


I just want to add that
while the gay leather community is responsible in many ways for shaping the BDSM
community as a whole I am not part of the BDSM community because I think their
protocol is out dated and does not apply to a true dominant male .A true
dominant male makes his own rules and does not conform to that of others. Just a
random thought!
J


Good day to ya!

I wanted to add that this is taken right from he Wikipedia definition of
erotic humiliation:
For some people, activities such as name-calling are a way of achieving
ego
reduction
or getting over

sexual inhibitions
. For example, between gay people, terms usually
associated with
homophobia
may be used, such as "faggot".

posted on Mar 9, 2008 9:40 PM ()

Comments:

I'm too young for such discussions..
comment by ekyprogressive on Mar 14, 2008 11:13 PM ()
Wow! Holly! This is a world I don't know! Do you ever worry that someone might show up at your door, having tracked you down?
comment by redimpala on Mar 12, 2008 11:21 AM ()
here's the link for the question thingy. https://mybloggers.com/elkhound/personal_questions_teacherwoman.html
comment by elkhound on Mar 12, 2008 9:38 AM ()
Whatever floats your boat is always been my motto...the only things that bugs me is when kids or animals are involved. Your one hell of a business woman...I would love to be a "fly" on the wall and listen for a few days to some of your calls. I will tell you this...my very first job when I was 18 was a phone sex operator in Texas. Back then I had a script and worked for this guy...I had no friggin clue *ROFL* most of the men I talked to wanted to talk to younger girls...I lasted about a month or so...most of the stuff I talked about I didn't even know what it was..*laughs*
comment by elfie33 on Mar 11, 2008 4:33 PM ()
Very well you explain to me why I prefer old time radio drama to the TV type.The real action takes place between the ears.
comment by bumpedoff on Mar 11, 2008 5:38 AM ()
Gotcha... It hadn't sunk in that it was only phone sex... You see, I've been a stripper and live sex performer in clubs and private parties since I was fifteen, and was imagining it was face to face stuff sometimes with people who hadn't realised what was going to happen -- like in a club scene. Live shows are easy because there's the feedback from the audience, but I can't imagine how you think of things to say after a while. Keeping the tension up is a real art if you've only got words. Do you write scripts that you can refer to if you 'dry'? I think it is hilarious that people will pay to be verbally abused... poor things. I imagine it is worse in the USA because of all the religion that makes everyone feel so guilty all the time for simply having natural sexual thoughts. I didn't mean to sound critical... I was simply slow witted.
comment by clovis on Mar 10, 2008 11:37 PM ()
In my youth I belonged to some gay biker clubs--I discovered 2 things: Leather was worn as drag queens wear sequins and that each man (at least those I met)were very versatile--played both roles back and forth--tonight a top, tomorrow a bottom--the wisdom use to be I don't know if it still is) that you had to experience both to appreciate both roles--I wasn't versatile--strictly a top--so I am unable to verify that.
And then I went back to vanilla sex!
comment by greatmartin on Mar 10, 2008 6:24 PM ()
I love how you have managed to make a business out of doing what gives you the most pleasure. That rocks! Do you have a post somewhere that discusses what inspired you and how you got your business started in the first place?
comment by mellowdee on Mar 10, 2008 6:15 PM ()
that is not the same as M&M
comment by fredo on Mar 10, 2008 10:08 AM ()
Holly, you are shocking but it amazes me how you can make it all just sound like business. You go girl!
comment by wickedwitchofthewest on Mar 10, 2008 6:09 AM ()
good lord, I am so naive! I do like that you are letting us know more about your world and what goes on. while none of this is to my liking,to each their own.
comment by elkhound on Mar 10, 2008 4:49 AM ()

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