I has been mad busy here with the school holidays. Days away and other activities to prevent me from touchy base very much never mind have the time to visit these hallowed cyber halls. Well today I have a post. Probably not a great post but i really need to get it off my chest before it festers and makes me feel even more down than I do already.

My sister split up with her ex near a year ago. They both have lovely new partners and we keep up with both couples. I thought my sister was cool with that as she said she was and that the kids were a big part of his life and didn't want to stand in their way and also he is my middle child's Godfather.

It was her birthday on Monday so she held a BBQ on the Sunday. All seemed fine no underlying niggles as far as I could see.

UNTIL........

Yesterday she deleted my as a friend on Facebook. I thought this a little strange so I sent her a message to ask why she had deleted me? Her response was "that a person can only take so much, bite there tongue so much before they reach their limit. I have reached my limit." EH?! WTF is she on about I replied. No reply has come back. So I responded to this with "I hope you liked your birthday present, I thought it was really cool xx"

I then started to think it was because I had sent her some "gift" via Facebook and invites to things on there and she was getting pissed at the bombardment of things - it was once every few days and she did the same anyway plus a whole host of crappy e-mails that went in the trash can before I read most of them. Fair do's if that is her gripe fine by me.

But this morning I switched my mobile on - it was needing charged and has no credit, prertty standard stuff for me and my mobile!!

Two messages from my sister

1..... Thanks for my scarf xxx

The second


2..... Have you seen(ex BF's name) lately!!!

now we are getting to it this is what has irked her. I will haver to wait till she has finished work to see if she responds to any of my messages. The funny thing is we do not even discuss her when we see her ex. Why would we there are so many more interesting topics of discussion, like his holiday, new dog, paint drying!!

Time will tell but she needs to build a frichin bridge, get over and decide what she is ok with.

Oh man family. God obviously gave me mine because I was either really bad in a former life or he gave them to me because he knew I could cope and didn't want to inflict them on anyone else!!!

Laterz