Things here are still frantic with school holidays so post really are few and far between!! But I am able to update on the wee sis situation.

A week past Friday when I was getting fed up with the cold shoulder she did eventually respond to my text message and claimed it was just that she had enough of the shit!! What shit I asked? She replied with the fact I was in contact with her ex. She had previously told me it was ok because he was close to the kids. I was never aware that I was going behind her back and never did so intentionally.

We have since spoken and spent last monday together with the kids having a picnic. I kinda get the feeling that she will be ok with things if I run it by her first. I can see where she is coming from but it is not like he was a flash in the pan boyfriend wise and it is not like either if them did the dirty on the other. So as far as I am concerned we are in a position to remain friends with both sides. I do think that she believes we have seen him far more than we actually have since last September (when they went their seperate ways). Her face was a picture when I told her we had only seen him 4 times in near a year!!