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Life & Events > Some Things Never Change--they Get Added on To
 

Some Things Never Change--they Get Added on To

 



This
was one of my first blog posts---January 28, 2006--at the third site I
started to blog at--7 years later I still believe in all these plus a
few more!

Some of the philosophies I have gathered for myself after 70 years (okay 77 now):

1. Life is uncertain--Eat dessert first!

2. Never say never.

3. Eliminate try from a sentence and it becomes a positive statement.

4. Say won't instead of can't which makes you honest.

5. Those who think they know it all are very annoying to those of us who do!

6.
"I do my thing and you do your thing. I am not in this world to live up
to your expectations, and you are not in this world to live up to mine.
You are you and I am I and if by chance we find each other; It's
beautiful." Frederick S. Perls

7. Promises are made to be broken.

8.
When you feel guilty you are spending time in the past, when you are
worrying you are spending time in the future and when you do either you
are not dealing with the here and now.

9. "There is good in everyone." Anne Frank

10. When love is gone I will not stoop to become your friend.

11. What goes round comes round.

12. Most people don't learn from past mistakes and keep repeating them.

13. I do not need another to validate or approve of me.

14. It's human to err, divine to forgive but harder to do the latter.

15. When a person lies it is usually to make them look better in your eyes.

16. Being alone doesn't mean you are lonely.

17. People will do what they want to do even though they say they won't/don't.

18. Some people believe that negative attention is better than no attention at all.

19. "If you really love me you will..." should not be said to someone you love.

20. Eliminate negative people from your life.

21. Live as if today is the last day of your life.

22. Do stop to smell the roses, look at nature.

23. Appreciate what you have.

******************************************************************
And now a few more:
24.
Another way of putting #17--people are selfish--even the do gooders let
you know they are doing good and that's why they do it.

25. People are really ugly when they can hide behind the Internet
26. I am a very happy, positive person and become more so as I get older!
27.
The people I am most disappointed in are those that call themselves
christians and the people I admire most are those who live their life
as  Christians.

28. It is possible to make real friends after meeting them on cyber space.
29. Yes, what mother said is still true: do not discuss religion and/or politics.
30. Children know it all or so they think--adults realize how little they know.

posted on Apr 11, 2013 6:17 PM ()

Comments:

Great pic! Seven years later and you don't look much different!
I hope to follow the same philosophies in my life...especially liked #9,20,and 23. The others I'll work on.
comment by jaydensblog on Apr 12, 2013 12:59 PM ()
They don't take work!
reply by greatmartin on Apr 12, 2013 3:51 PM ()
You can say that since you are among the fortunate ones. Too many guys my age and slightly older have already made their final exit. My father only lived to be 53, so longevity isn't something I can count on from my genes. But I'm still working at it!
comment by jjoohhnn on Apr 12, 2013 9:06 AM ()
I 'lost' many friends in their 40s, 50s and 60s during the 1980s when AIDS first hit--now I am losing many friends to 'old age'--I really didn't expect longevity--maybe it WAS all the bad things I did when I was younger!!!
reply by greatmartin on Apr 12, 2013 9:09 AM ()
Too complicated! But I do stick by #21. Since guys my age started dropping, it's not hypothetical any longer.
comment by jjoohhnn on Apr 12, 2013 6:12 AM ()
You are still a kid!!!
reply by greatmartin on Apr 12, 2013 7:35 AM ()

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