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Life & Events > Relationships > My Sex Life--not for Prudes, Conservatives, Etc.
 

My Sex Life--not for Prudes, Conservatives, Etc.

When I retired undefeated champ regarding sexual accomplishments/record numbers last year I
really didn't think twice about it. I had spent most of my teen age and adult
life pursuing and/or having sex, certainly having a lot more than my share.



For years I kept facts,
figures and notebooks and who, how, where and when I had sex plus for a number
of years took pictures of my 'conquests'.  Yes, there were detailed descriptions in my diaries,
which is why they are to be burned within 24 hours of my death (or I might do it
before then!)


I never had a type--tall, short, thin, fat, black
white, etc., didn't matter to me as long as they were male and breathing--I
learned to add the latter requirement to my 'demands'.

I wasn't looking for
love--in the right or wrong place--I was just looking to rack the numbers up.
Ironically, when love did come along I lost interest in the sex aspect of the relationship. I was
selfish when it came to sex in the
sense that I was only interested in my satisfaction, my climax, not caring
whether my partner achieved one.

It was very rare that I put, or thought of, my
partner first and even in those cases that soon faded.



This past year I put sex
on the back burner--certainly didn't go looking for it--and in some cases when
it was offered, like via SilverDaddies, I turned it down. I think it
was a combination of having had too much sex in my lifetime--all kinds--by the
time I was 18 I had tried EVERYTHING you could think of and some thinks you
couldn't imagine. I decided then that I was very happy with what is termed
'vanilla' sex. It took me a long time to learn that it was the touching, the
cuddling, the sharing was what
counted, not the actual sex act.



Had I become jaded? At 73 was I burned out? Was sex
boring? Did I know what would/could happen before it did so there was no need to
follow through? Or did I have enough sex from the age of 11 to the age of 73 to
completely satisfy me?

For the first 6 months of the past year I really
didn't have any sex or interest in having sex. After my operation I didn't waste
any time proving that I still could have sex and once I did that I forgot about
it again BUT as I have gotten better, healthier(?), I have started to think
about sex--not only think about it but wanting to have it.


I am not planning to actively pursue it as much as I
did but I think I will start putting myself out there a little more and,
certainly, not turning down any that came along--that wouldn't be polite!
:O)

I do not regret ANY sex, or trick, that I have had
in the past 60 years and I would, in all probability, do it all over again but I
think my approach might be different. I wonder if it will be different now?

I will say to all you guys under 50--get all you
can, when you can, NOW because even though there are many younger men who like
older men (and NOT for the money) the field does narrow and you will have a lot
of competition going after the younger ones--and you will not score as often, or
as easily, even if you have money and without you will be further hindered.



Now you will have to
excuse me as I have to practice my flirtation, seduction moves--or, maybe, they
are like, bicycle riding--you never forget how to do it?!?!?

posted on Mar 5, 2009 4:11 PM ()

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