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Life & Events > After Operations Observations Part 1
 

After Operations Observations Part 1

So far these have been the worst 13 days of my 72
years.

Lots to talk and tell about --including this idiot ripping out
his foley bag and walking out of the hospital in thye middle of the night but
that's another blog!

The two hardest things for me to deal with are 1) the complete
lack of energy--I get exhausted just typing this little bit and 2) the foley
bag. I wish they had warned me about the latter.

Of course my not having had a single cigarette since July 20th
hasn't helped in my recovery--every last one of my nerves are on edge!!!! Yes, I
know in the long run it is good for me but right now I am pulling my hair
out!

I do not seam to be able to get simple answers to simple
questions and this doctor passes it on to that doctor who passes it on to the
other doctor. I have appointments this week with the surgeon (well, not THE
surgeon--he is on vacation--I have not seen him since the operation!! This is
his partner), the urologist and my primary.

I am taking 9 different pills--and you know all the dire side
effects!!!--but I was able to talk the doc into giving me a tranquilizer to
combat the smokers withdrawel effects.

As I said, a lot to talk about from such things as waste at/in
hospitals, doctors not giving patient ALL the information they should have/need,
lack of follow through by doctors, the whole lack of rehab thing,
etc.

By the way just to show you how tired I am Allen and I went to
the movies yesterday (Brideshead Revisited) and I don't have the energy to write
a review--this blog has wiped me out--going to bed!!

posted on Aug 2, 2008 2:43 PM ()

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Just take it easy Martin, your body has been thru alot and needs to adjust. Don't push it...just rest and your strength will come back slowly.
comment by elfie33 on Aug 3, 2008 2:15 PM ()
It can only get better, Martin. It's great to see you blogging anew. I hope you can parley the enforced lack of nicotene into stopping altogether. Why go thru what you have otherwise?? Hang in there, my friend.
comment by looserobes on Aug 2, 2008 8:11 PM ()
Frustration is what I seem to be hearing a lot here, and I am so sorry to hear that you are going through so much of it. I think a lot of doctors (and caregivers) just assume too much sometimes...assuming patients know a lot of what they consider routine or common, assume patients will just accept what they're told and do what they're told without asking questions or resisting, and assume that when there is a problem or a question that somebody will take care of it. You just take care, though, and get that rest that you need so much. You will get stronger and better if you allow your body to heal, recover from the "invasion", and build itself back up. Don't push yourself too hard, just pace yourself and work at it realistically because we want you to get better.
comment by donnamarie on Aug 2, 2008 5:29 PM ()
It sounds like things are really tough. My uncle had quite a few of the basic frustrations that you seem to be having. I think a lot of it is that you are both such vital and outgoing people, which makes being forced to lie around torture that makes the tough parts of recovery even worse. It is even tougher because it sounds like you are having less than optimal results from the procedure. I wish I was closer so I could come over and help!
AJ
comment by lunarhunk on Aug 2, 2008 4:37 PM ()
we love you and are thinking of you!
comment by ocean1 on Aug 2, 2008 4:24 PM ()
Forgot to mention that you do not have the VNA coming in to
check you out?Medicare takes care all of this.They are
wonderful.
comment by fredo on Aug 2, 2008 2:58 PM ()
Martin,rest up.You need to rest This is the menu for you.
I am very sorry,to hear all of the problem that you are going
through.Guess,that I was a bit lucky here.No problem.
The VNA always came and check me out to see if things are
going fine,check my wound etc.Rehab like I told you was wonder
ful.Sorry,that you are uncomfortable by all of this.
Rest up,have a quiet dinner and go to bed.
This is the best medicine.Wish that I was there to help you along.
Good nIght.Martin.Rest up.
comment by fredo on Aug 2, 2008 2:56 PM ()

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