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Health & Fitness > Heart Doctor Visit--sound Heart, Unsound Mind :O)
 

Heart Doctor Visit--sound Heart, Unsound Mind :O)


The heart doctor gave me a thumbs up after looking at my EKG saying the heart looks great. I then told him WHY,
if I knew what would happen after the operation, I would never have had
the operation and went into all the details of why and what a hard time
I was having. He made some suggestions and told me to discuss with my
primary about taking Lexopro which he said is a newer and better drug than xanax and/or lorazapem. He, also, said that though it might be very hard for a few days or even a week to use an OTC sleep aid like Melotorium (sp?) and that I should cut out metoprolol.

The
strangest thing, and it really threw him, I was crying when he walked
into the room. Oddly I was getting anxious about the appointment and I
don't remember what was going through my mind when he walked in but it
obviously made him listen to me as this was the longest he ever spent
time with me. We discussed many other things--I questioned why he
didn't send me to physical therapy--the possibility of getting a pain
manager and so on.

He,  also, discussed the fact, like my psychologist said, that my mind and body aren't in sync and that it can take some time for that to happen--just what I DIDN'T want to hear!!!  :O)
In
any case he said he would see me in 3 months instead of 6 just to see
how I am progressing.  By the way, I gained one pound since the last
time I was at his office in August.


OOOPS! Cut my mind off--think that was done on purpose???

posted on Nov 10, 2008 4:54 PM ()

Comments:

Well, it sounds like things are going really well with the heart, which is wonderful.
The mind and body will find balance. You are just not used to having the imbalance so it is probably more disturbing.
AJ
comment by lunarhunk on Nov 11, 2008 8:38 AM ()
Glad that you got a good report.Now just hang in there.
comment by fredo on Nov 11, 2008 7:49 AM ()
There still is a lot going around in your head Martin. I feel ur situation is progressing. It will go on step by step. Take the time for it. You feel better like you did a month ago. You know we all support you. Everytime I call you you sound better and better and more positive so.... keep going that way.
hugs buddy xxx
comment by itsjustme on Nov 11, 2008 4:14 AM ()
Hi Martin, I take Lexapro now and it works really well! I highly recommend it.
comment by hopefields on Nov 11, 2008 1:24 AM ()
Well, depression is something I've fought long and hard against and it isn't something that just comes on overnight, nor is it something that goes away overnight. People who have never had it sometimes can not understand that, which is why people sometimes have a hard time figuring out why I'm having a bad spell when I'm so good at other times. So many things cause it. Something such as major surgery can do it, add on what was going through your mind prior to the surgery and I think you have a good start for an explanation in your case. The meds are there, too, still some questions about your physical health, and...well, you know what I'm getting at. You can help your therapy a lot by noticing your sunny skies, the singing birds, taking pictures of smiling faces...just keep those good, happy things surrounding you and avoid anything that brings about gloom and shadows. And don't be afraid to think of things that will certainly bring on a smile!
comment by donnamarie on Nov 10, 2008 10:04 PM ()
Oh, Martin, that's great news about your heart and how well you are coming along physically, it really is. I know you are having other problems and I can only hope that the new meds recommended will help. Hang in there, ok? You've got to promise you will not give up or give in to the depressive mood you are in. Keep reminding yourself that it isn't you, it isn't because something wasn't right about the surgery, and there really isn't anything wrong with your mind, either. It's a glitch...caused by the "what the heck" on your brain by the "tampering" with your heart. Your heart is better, now your brain has to catch up with it so it can feel better, too.
comment by donnamarie on Nov 10, 2008 8:17 PM ()
I am glad to hear you are doing well/better Martin. I heard through the grapevine you had some problems. take care, be well
comment by coincutter on Nov 10, 2008 6:22 PM ()
Martin, I was on lexapro and it really worked wonders for me. I ended up swithing to celexa as there is no generic for lexapro and I couldn't afford it. But seriously, I hope it works as well for you. take care
comment by elkhound on Nov 10, 2008 6:15 PM ()
HUGS. Sorry to hear things are so crazy but glad it's gonna get better for you.
comment by panthurdreams on Nov 10, 2008 6:09 PM ()

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