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One of Those Social Dilemmas

My cousin in Illinois wrote this in an email:

"Now I have found an interesting article to send to you. I’ll put it in the mail tomorrow. Glenn’s sister’s husband has a subscription to Smithsonian magazine. They share the magazines with us. This latest one had a good article about Colorado and more specifically Estes Park and environs. I took it out and will send it. I would love to see the areas written about although I wouldn’t get on a horse to do so. While I’ve been to Estes Park on several occasions, I’ve never been inside the Stanley Hotel. I would like to do that next trip."

I can't decide whether to tell her not to bother because we have that copy of the magazine and I've already seen it, or let her go ahead and send it so she feels like she is sharing something important. Most likely I will let her send it because it's so deflating to be excited about something and have the other party burst your balloon. But it would save her a stamp.

The pictures are from my Uncle Robert's trading post. He has since moved to a nursing home in town, and my cousin Paul lives there.

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posted on June 28, 2015 6:17 PM ()

Comments:

I have always been torn between subscribing to Smithsonian or National
Geographic. National Geo won this year.
comment by elderjane on July 4, 2015 1:15 PM ()
At the time of hsi death, my great uncle had National Geographics from the first issue, back when they had more drawings than photographs. I think his family threw them away.
reply by troutbend on July 4, 2015 1:47 PM ()
an item on my bucket list is to save about $200 and spend the night at the Stanley. was there once. went to the gift shop and bought a number of "Shining" related cha-chis.

reguards
yer Stephen King fan pal
bugg
comment by honeybugg on June 30, 2015 4:14 PM ()
Didn't know they have a gift shop. Next time we're up there (after the 4th of July nutso-ness dies down a bit) I'll go check it out.
reply by troutbend on July 4, 2015 1:43 PM ()
Have you been to the Stanley Hotel? That would be cool...
comment by kristilyn3 on June 29, 2015 8:36 AM ()
I've been there a couple of times, and we stayed there on our wedding night. It wasn't luxurious then, probably nicer now. They have always struggled to keep it running. They recently had a contest for the design of a maze, trying to recreate that idea from The Shining. That movie was filmed at a lodge in Oregon, but the Stanley supposedly inspired Stephen King to write the story.
reply by troutbend on June 29, 2015 9:27 AM ()
Yeah, it's best not to let her know you already have seen the article. I love your pictures. Is that Paul's kitty eating next to a pile of whatever? Is that thing a kitty house?

Trading posts are a thing of the past. BTW, we have a pubic road called Burnt Store Road. On "old" Burnt Store Road, there was a trading post allegedly burned down by Seminole chief Billy Bowleges during one of their wars against the settlers. It is minutes away from our house and I love the name.
comment by tealstar on June 29, 2015 7:27 AM ()
That was one of Robert's feral cats. Maybe 15 or 20 of them lived in that coal shed (those are giant pieces of coal) and a few used that kitty house. People from town would bring unwanted pets down there, and sometimes he'd let them stay. I'm glad that the modernization of our world hasn't totally wiped out the local names for roads. 'Burnt Store Road' sounds so much better than 'County Road 43' or whatever it is in officialdom.
reply by troutbend on June 29, 2015 9:20 AM ()
G'DAY G'DAY

yeah hide the magazine and keep ya mouth shut wtggggggggggggggg
comment by kevinshere on June 29, 2015 5:58 AM ()
It's a fine point of politeness to know how to receive gifts, and it really does make people happy to give. Maybe women are inclined to pay attention to this and give it greater value than efficiency or frugality. I always thought one traditional role women have had is that we are relied upon to deal with feelings, ours or other people's.
comment by drmaus on June 29, 2015 4:33 AM ()
A couple of weeks ago she sent me a box of extra daffodil bulbs that she didn't want to throw away. I owe her something, but haven't come across the perfect thing. I don't believe in buying gifts unless I know it's something the recipient for sure wants or needs, so it has to be something from around here. I'll go through the family pictures and see if I have a picture of her grandmother or mother as a child. I think Gail said that one of her brothers ended up with all the family photos from the previous generations.
reply by troutbend on June 29, 2015 9:25 AM ()
Karma!! You will be rewarded for your thinking of her and her feelings-- unlike jjoohhnn!
comment by greatmartin on June 28, 2015 7:43 PM ()
Building up Karma points.
reply by troutbend on June 28, 2015 9:43 PM ()
This is an issue where men and women differ significantly--from overthinging to not doing. I wouldn't think twice before I said, "no need to send it, I have it already".
comment by jjoohhnn on June 28, 2015 7:18 PM ()
If she ever found out I let her waste the time and the stamp to send it, she might be miffed. Note to self: if Gail ever visits, hide the Smithsonian Magazines.
reply by troutbend on June 28, 2015 9:40 PM ()

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