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Parenting & Family > I Know This is Harsh
 

I Know This is Harsh

I've never heard of these people unless maybe Elizabeth born in 1805 was my great-great-great grandmother. Family tree research is a wonderful thing, but I just went through several months of one of my cousins pestering me about what I know about our common ancestors so she can get accepted into the DAR (Daughters of the American Revolution).

I couldn't believe all the hoops she had to jump through: not only birth certificates, but marriage certificates and death certificates for people born in the 1700s. You can imagine how difficult it is to track all that down, and she harped on and on about what her grandmother's middle name must have been because all she could find was the middle initial.

It wore me out to read her emails about it, and then she sent this other woman to pester me via email.

This came today:

From: Katie

Hi Laura,

I emailed you a few months back about the H____ family bible. Thanks again for that resource! I am hitting a wall with several of the siblings of the Mark and Barbara H___ family. I am specifically looking for information on James b. 1794, George b. 1798, John b. 1799, Peter b. 1801, Elizabeth b. 1805, Mary b. 1806 and William H. b 1809. I found a record for a William H. H____ enlisting into the Army but I cannot find anything else about him so was wondering if you had any more information on him or any of these children.

Katie

From: Laura

Katie,

I’m copying my cousin Gail in case she might have come across any mention of the people you are asking about.

I spend all my time recovering from devastating floods that happened in my area in 2013, won’t be done until 2017 some time, if we are lucky and don’t have a wildfire on top of it. This doesn’t leave time to think about the H_____ family. All I have is that family bible and what Gail has sent me.

Sorry,

Laura



posted on May 11, 2015 10:53 PM ()

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Delving into family history can be absorbing and historically interesting, but the motivation here is to flaunt a pedigree and place oneself above all the peasants. I can't research anyone in my family because both parents were born in Greece, in a small town, and records were sketchy, and my mom said she was born "the year after her brothers came home from the war" and she was referring to Turkey. No records available. However, I could research Jay, who has Indian ancestry, and a classic name: Stanton.
comment by tealstar on May 17, 2015 6:34 AM ()
I am probably fortunate to have some relatives who are more into the family tree stuff and send me what they have. It's more than enough to answer any questions I might have had about long-dead folks at this time.
reply by troutbend on May 31, 2015 9:14 PM ()
It pains me that such people as the DAR insist they are the only TRUE Americans because they claim ancestry prior to the revolution. 95% of Americans alive today were the offspring of immigrants, or they were true 'native' Americans. The latter two categories are ancestries I would be proud to claim. My ancestors came from Ireland to dig the Erie Canal and from Scotland where the British kicked them off the land so they could raise sheep. I am sincerely proud of them.
comment by jondude on May 13, 2015 9:03 AM ()
I agree.
reply by troutbend on May 13, 2015 10:42 AM ()
I had to google DAR. Sounds like something that would be of great interest, although she would never be eligible, to Hyacinth Bucket (pronounced Bouquet).
comment by nittineedles on May 12, 2015 8:19 PM ()
Oh, absolutely. I hadn't thought of that. I told my cousin before she goes through all that she'd better make sure those are the sort of women she wants to spend time with.
reply by troutbend on May 13, 2015 10:39 AM ()
Doesn't seem harsh at all. As a daughter of the Colorado flood (DCF), you have to attend to your sworn duties.
comment by drmaus on May 12, 2015 9:29 AM ()
That's a good one. I'll tell my cousin.
reply by troutbend on May 12, 2015 6:27 PM ()
WHEW!!! I thought you were going to tell me off!
comment by greatmartin on May 12, 2015 8:03 AM ()
That'd be something, wouldn't it? I was looking at a recipe for Pineapple Carrot Cake Pie - thought of you. I'll post it as Kitchentales. There's carrots in the crust, and pineapple in the cream cheese filling.
reply by troutbend on May 12, 2015 6:34 PM ()
I went through all the DAR thing and so did one of my cousins. If you
like history, you tend to get absorbed in it. What makes it more confusing are nicknames. I joined for my children so they would know
about their roots. It does seem trivial when you are overcoming
real, present day problems.
comment by elderjane on May 12, 2015 3:56 AM ()
After all the agony of verifying one relative, my cousin got into the organization, and women were sashaying around flaunting that they had additional relatives, so now she has embarked upon the second relative challenge.
reply by troutbend on May 12, 2015 6:29 PM ()
It's not too harsh. You spoke your truth.
comment by kristilyn3 on May 12, 2015 3:34 AM ()
I feel a little bit guilty, but will get over it. I've got worse things on my conscience lately.
reply by troutbend on May 12, 2015 6:30 PM ()

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