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Life & Events > The Decades Are a Blur
 

The Decades Are a Blur

It is hard for me to wrap my mind around the concept that because this is 2011, the 1980s were 30 years ago. I always think of them as being 20 years ago. But now it is the 1990s that were 20 years ago. If it matters.

You know how you can look at a picture or movie or TV show from the 1960s and know it's then because of their clothes and hair? Even the '70s are distinctive for me with the mini-skirts, and long hair on young men. I can date those easily but I struggle to remember the look of the 80s versus the 90s. I guess one of those decades there there were the big shoulder pads in women's suits, and that big curly hair, and the big glasses frames, but I can't look at an advertisement and instantly know it is from 1985 versus 1995.

And yes, I can see the difference between a 1984 Buick and today's cars, but show me a 1984 Buick next to a 1994 Buick and I'm pretty sure I couldn't tell you the years. Back in the good old days of the 60s and 70s the American cars changed design every year, and we could tell the makes, models, and years at a glance. Then the imports came along, most notably the VW Beetle, and the designs didn't change as quickly.

During the 80s and 90s we were 30 and 40 years old and working. Our life was a plodding routine of going to work, sometimes working long hours, and going home to get ready for the next day. Weekends were barely long enough to rest up for the workweek ahead. So those days run together in my memory.

Naturally, I remember big historical events like the Berlin wall coming down, but forget what year it was, and am not bothered that I forget. Don't bother telling me, it doesn't matter to me. I don't suppose I'll ever forget September 11, 2001, but that's partially aided by the 911 of it. I have forgotten the exact day of the Kennedy assassination, but have retained the year and I do remember where I was and what I was doing when I first heard about it. As far as that goes, I remember watching the Berlin wall being erected on television sometime in the 1960s.

I don't attribute this forgetfulness to old age; I never was good with dates. For the first ten or so years that I was married to Mr. Troutbend, I couldn't remember what day his birthday fell on. It used to be printed on the back of his work badge, and when April came around, I'd look there so I could get the date right. Fortunately it's later in the month, because if it was the second or something, the day would be gone by before I realized it was the new month.

Here is an interesting cloud formation from the other day. We don't see these castles in the air right here, the rain clouds in my sky here are usually lower and grayer when they move in.



Now that I mention it, I do remember it was in the 1970s that I would drive long distances on the interstate along Colorado's Front Range and marvel at big thunderheads like these over the plains, tinted by the sunset to pinks and golds.

posted on July 11, 2011 9:22 AM ()

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Because I had more strength and energy, I remember all those years with nostalgia, and, of course, because I was in a world with interesting and prominent people. I wouldn't wear those clothes though.
comment by tealstar on July 22, 2011 6:08 AM ()
For a few years there the sky was the limit, and then a bunch of reality crashed in on us and we figured out greed had become the norm, and nothing has been the same since.
reply by troutbend on July 22, 2011 2:50 PM ()
One thing I CAN remember is miniskirts!!!!!!!! Loved those California girls!
comment by solitaire on July 13, 2011 5:49 AM ()
It's funny, at the time that was the center of our universe and we thought anyone who didn't dress like that was dowdy.
reply by troutbend on July 16, 2011 7:51 PM ()
I think this means we are getting older!
comment by dragonflyby on July 12, 2011 9:25 AM ()
I can't decide whether it's important to me to know 'the look' of the 80s. I suppose not.
reply by troutbend on July 16, 2011 7:49 PM ()
And 'the kids' won't listen just as we didn't!
comment by greatmartin on July 12, 2011 8:22 AM ()
We hear people say "if I knew then what I know now" but like you say, even if we knew it, we wouldn't have paid attention.
reply by troutbend on July 16, 2011 7:48 PM ()
I was single from l970 to l972 and remember it as something of a blur.
We would dance until 3 a. m. and then go to work the next day and try to
stay awake. June lived a few blocks from me, there were a lot of very
nice men who worked at the college and we sort of had our own singles group.
comment by elderjane on July 12, 2011 6:09 AM ()
Those were the days!
reply by troutbend on July 16, 2011 7:47 PM ()
Wait til you hit your 70s--the memories, 'that seems familiar' you bite your tongue when you say "When I was your age" and I have to remember the 50s, 60s, 70s and 80s and don't even remember yesterday!!!
I do remember the late 60s, early 70s because so much changed in my life and the world!
comment by greatmartin on July 11, 2011 4:34 PM ()
Back in the day I would probably have claimed I would never say 'when I was your age' but now I'm wiser and realize it's inevitable.
reply by troutbend on July 11, 2011 7:48 PM ()
I know the 80's!!! But I keep seeing things repeating...
comment by kristilyn3 on July 11, 2011 12:49 PM ()
One of these days I'm going to sit here and try to envision history through your eyes, in particular the things that always existed for you that I would consider innovations.
reply by troutbend on July 11, 2011 7:41 PM ()
There is one thing I haven't forgotten with age and that is.... I know that once I knew a lot more stuff. lol I do still recognize those old cars from the 50's and 60's and I can usually tell you the year and model. They don't make cars like they use to make. Now, they all pretty much look alike. Great post!
comment by anniel on July 11, 2011 11:21 AM ()
Thanks! Mr. Troutbend can date a Chevy by the tail fins. Up until about 1968 my dad bought a new Ford every year or so, and we don't have a single picture of any of them, what a shame.
reply by troutbend on July 11, 2011 7:44 PM ()
Big hair, shoulder pads and big glasses frames were popular in the 80's. How do I know? I have a photograph of myself hidden away.
I don't remember the young men wearing mini skirts however, it was DH's beautiful, long, wavy, red locks that first attracted me to him the summer of 1974.
comment by nittineedles on July 11, 2011 10:01 AM ()
When I pick a decade to remember fondly, it's the 70s.
reply by troutbend on July 11, 2011 7:40 PM ()
Interesting post there.
comment by fredo on July 11, 2011 9:57 AM ()
Thanks! Best wishes to all of you there.
reply by troutbend on July 11, 2011 7:37 PM ()

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