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Wine and Cookies

Hello, and I'm gonna be frank, upright and candid about the horrible events of Saturday morning. My daughter is married to a psycho, a demon possessed SOB, who touts himself as a Christian, but is a monster, a bully, hateful, spiteful, an insane pile of sh*t. I had lulled myself into thinking this sob had changed, to a degree, because he has been fairly nice for several weeks, but he cannot supress his true nature for long. The counselor had warned us of this.

Saturday morning at 6am, my daughter Carm phoned to make sure I was up and ready to go to Walmart. She cannot take the heat, so she comes early and picks me up--Zee had already gotten me up and helped me dress etc. Then Carm would load me and the wheelchair into the car, we'd make our run to Wallymart, and be back by 9am at the latest before the temp reached 102 degrees.
So the phone woke up the sob, then he comes into my room where Zee and I were talking; the sob rushes in, in one of his demonic rages and screamed and carried on and had one of his tantrums, like a five year old--and that's his mental age--a horrible sight in a 350 pound man, I mean screaming and frothing at the mouth, red faced, spiteful, demonic.

This a**hole tried to hit Carm, the sweetest most gentle kind person I know, threatened Zee, and got in my face. I am not afraid of him. I am mentally stronger, and his demon doesn't faze me. Ever time he vomited out a spiel of vitrolic sh*t, I threw one right back at him. He hates that. As a bully, he wants women to cower and cry and plead for forgiveness. That ain't gonna happen bub.
I told Carm to call the cops--and it's not the first time they've been here. He took one cop out on the back porch and was calm as a cucumber. That shows he could conrol his temper if he wanted to.
Sob left for work, leaving two crying highly upset women, my daughters, and I said let's get out of the house today. We went to our favorite places, a combo of antique/ thrift store and browsed around, I treated them to lunch, then we all went home to rest. I hate and despise that sob. I keep urging Zee to leave him and move to Mississippi--or leave him period. Why don't I leave? Because Zee would have NO ONE to back her up, to love her and protect her.
That evening, Zee made some cookies and I drank a glass of Moscato, then we retired for the night. What a way to live, at the tantrumish whims of a bully. Did I say I hate his guts?

susil

posted on July 14, 2013 10:41 AM ()

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Btw, this never was Dennis. This was Kevin. Why don't you tell everybody the truth about you single handedly tore apart a marriage of 31 years and you were happy about it. Or how you brain washed your daughter into leaving her Only daughter because you were a selfish ungreatful hypocrite. Or break the ice and tell everybody how your daughter cheated on her husband and walked out on her family because nothing was good enough for her. All your sil ever did was Love your daughter through everything and provide for her everything she would need, while she sat at home. I hope you are happy. I hope you enjoy your daughter being a lier and a cheat. Money can't buy happieness and this new bimvo she thinks makes her happy will run out of money too. Its sad she would choose money over her OWN DAUGHTER and marriage of 31 years to a MAN who devoted his Everything to her. Its for That that you should have been happy. When your daughter found a Man who provided for her and Still loves her unconditionally seven after she cheated on him and walked out. For that you should have been happy. But if it isn't your way you don't like it and can't be happy for anyone.
comment by ohreally on Sept 6, 2013 8:26 AM ()
I take it Dennis is your Sil? Isn't it His house you are staying in? Obviously he has paid for something. If your daughter is always staying home to take care of you, then she isn't contributing to the household bills. Sounds like you are wrong again. No clarification for the mysterious bruises that just appeared? As far as everyone saying he should be charged with something, and yada yada, slander and defamation are also wrong. I've seen it too many times - mother in law/father in law moves in a the family falls apart. All i know is my MIL will never live with me.
comment by ohreally on July 25, 2013 8:51 PM ()
Hi karen; If there is a next time, this bully will regret it. I hate bullies becuse they are losers, and weaklings who can only feel better about themselves if they put other people down.
comment by susil on July 25, 2013 2:35 PM ()
"Being here at my daughter and SIL's house has been a trying and emotional experience for us all. I came into their life and require a lot of personal help, I disrupted their daily routines and their lives and mine have been totally in chaos. I feel like such a burden on them--not feel--I know I am, I have wept more than ever before in my whole life."
Sounds like you caused this chaos and are trying to blame someone else. If you don't like the situation you are living in, why don't you go home? You should spend more time thanking your daughter and SIL for being gracious enough to move into there home, instead of insulting the man who allows you to come stay in his house. Do you pay rent? Do you help with the bills? Just wondering. Also, if Carm had bruises all over her arm, then why didn't the cops do something when they were over? If she had red marks/bruises on her at the time, they would have done something. Sounds fishy to me. But alas, I don't know the full story. Just like the liberal media, this only shows one side of the ordeal. Hope things work out. Good luck to you all.
comment by ohreally on July 21, 2013 2:10 PM ()
dennis, get a life; you are the one who doesn't help with the bills or anything else. Your stalking days are over.
reply by susil on July 25, 2013 2:05 PM ()
tough one & a decision only your daughter can make...let's hope she makes it soon. I was in my own abusive relationship and it took me 4 years to wake up & leave!
comment by panthurdreams on July 19, 2013 9:05 AM ()
Hi panthur; so sorry you went through that. Abusers are pathetic people.
reply by susil on July 25, 2013 2:08 PM ()
This man has pathological issues, as you say. I survived emotional abuse and thanks to a wonderful psychologist, found my way to peace and freedom. I could never go back. This is a difficult situation for all of you. Sending courage, care and support!
comment by marta on July 15, 2013 5:33 AM ()
Hi marta; I am so proud of you for getting out of a bad situation. Thanks for the "care package!"
reply by susil on July 25, 2013 2:11 PM ()





Zee should get some counseling. Is that possible? There are hot lines for abused women -- they can be helpful with suggestions and emotional support. That the women cower before him stuns me. You and me, we don't take it.



comment by tealstar on July 14, 2013 9:54 PM ()
Hi teal; we have a wonderful counselor who has great insight into the situation and knows nothing will change until the psycho wants help, which will never happen.
reply by susil on July 25, 2013 2:15 PM ()
I didn't know this, but sensed something along those lines. I suppose Zee doesn't feel like she has the economic means to leave him.
comment by troutbend on July 14, 2013 7:32 PM ()
Hi laura; it's never too late to start over though. I really believe that.
XXXXOOOOO
reply by susil on July 25, 2013 2:19 PM ()
I can't imagine how you and Zee stand it. My third husband was a spoiled brat. When he tried to forbid me to see my children, I left him. Too bad
that Zee puts up with it. I felt like I had left the shadows and found the
sunlight when I left. Being alone and broke simply didn't matter.
comment by elderjane on July 14, 2013 5:42 PM ()
Hi jeri; you are a strong person and I applaud you. Everyone deserves sunlight, respect, and peace and quiet, out of the shadows.
reply by susil on July 25, 2013 2:24 PM ()
That is a sad situation.
comment by jjoohhnn on July 14, 2013 3:34 PM ()
Hi jj; hope you are well. Things are gonna improve!
reply by susil on July 25, 2013 2:27 PM ()
That sounds like a truly horrible situation. I'll be praying for you.
Are you getting the newsletters?
Talk to you later, have to go to brotherhood meeting at church.
comment by larryb on July 14, 2013 1:39 PM ()
Hi larry; good to hear from you again. I do hope your health has improved and you're able to walk around some again?
reply by susil on July 25, 2013 2:31 PM ()
What a horrible person! Doesn't Texas have a law that requires the cops to arrest abusers? Some states do and some don't. I think if the hittee says the hitter did it, the cops have to arrest even if they don't see them do it. Emotional abuse can be worse than physical. I hate bullies. How sad for all of you!
comment by catdancer on July 14, 2013 11:01 AM ()
Hi karen;your reply at the top-sorry!
reply by susil on July 25, 2013 2:38 PM ()

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