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Peculiar People

When my cousin Leah (widowed six months ago) came for a visit, she was telling me the ladies in her social group said she needs to get a dog to keep her company. Now as we were talking about this, we both knew she wasn't gonna do that. Her son who lives next door has a catahoula dog who runs around in her yard and on her porch--that's enough dog for her.
I pointed out that none of our family keeps indoor dogs or cats or other pets--none of us. My sister Ava married a guy with two parakeets, but he had 'em prior to their nuptials. My cousins and other relatives aren't pet people. Not even an aquarium among them that I know of. We are too pragmatic and hard and practical. Some of us have an "outside" dog, or cat(s) but you're never gonna see one in the house.
Another thing is that none of us wear jewelry. Rarely you might see stud earrings or a watch, that's about it.  One cousin wears all her rings when she shows up at wakes and funerals; every finger is sparkly with diamonds. Otherwise she's ringless. Makeup is rare too--au naturel" is it. What you see is what you get. And some of us don't like curtains--Ava and her husband built a house and use blinds--there's not a curtain in sight. She doesn't like them. Plain and bare, that's us. Your wrinkles hang out for all to see. Your hair is gray and so what? (Not me, Bub,--I keep Clairol-ed up.)
A friend yesterday teared up talking about her poodle who died at 17, and she had a special little tomb made for him and says she sits there sometimes and talks to her "baby" and cries. Such tenderness was so poignant to me, because to me and my peculiar extended family, that is strange.
Susil

posted on Apr 12, 2008 7:56 AM ()

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As for pets, I can't imagine life without at least one. I've always lived with them - from the time I was born. There may have been a year or so after my son was born that I didn't have one, but that's all. I miss my pets as much as any family member or close friend.
comment by catdancer on Apr 19, 2008 8:45 PM ()
Your reply to Elfie's comment brought back a memory from my travels with my mother last fall. One evening she asked me if I had brought any eye make up. I said yes and got out my mascara and eyeliner. She said, "No! Not that! I want blue eye shadow!" I was sorely tempted to tell her that blue eye shadow was, like, so five minutes ago. Instead, I just said I didn't have any.
comment by catdancer on Apr 19, 2008 8:43 PM ()
I have always looked more interesting with make-up, at least after the age of 17. I looked at all those natural flower children of the 60s and thought one day they might wish they'd learned how to pretty up because what they had wasn't going to last forever. If you use Clairol, you are not totally lost. I like it all -- all the imagery, all the artifice, all the on-stage persona of the actress. Natural/smatcharal - dot ain't me. Hand me the eyeliner, honey, I'm going out. The kitties, however, love me even at dawn when I am about as natural as I gits. And I am still tearing up when I think of Scratch and Sniff, my late kitties from the 90s. xx, T.
comment by tealstar on Apr 13, 2008 11:25 AM ()
Jewelry I can see, but I gotta' have my makeup!
comment by redimpala on Apr 12, 2008 6:59 PM ()
We are all for pets, jewelry and makeup in my family and so is most everyone I know. I guess it is because we are so close to Dallas.
comment by elderjane on Apr 12, 2008 4:49 PM ()
What's a catwhatever dog? I hate it when pets die. What a softie I am. As for the wedding ring, someday a diver in the Pacific will find my last one and wonder how it ever got there.
comment by jondude on Apr 12, 2008 8:52 AM ()
Everybody is different that's what makes this big ole world special I had to smile because my mom doesn't wear jewelry or makeup either. Never has...she kept her wedding ring in a little box.
comment by elfie33 on Apr 12, 2008 8:01 AM ()

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