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Organizing a Life

I'm blogging as a means of procrastination--since last October I've been working on organizing a lifetime of photos. Yikes--I had no idea what I was getting into, so always find a reason to put it off, but my office is a mess, a wreck, with albums and papers and bags and boxes scattered all over.
I wanted to make albums for my two daughters and one for grandbaby. I discovered lots of photos of myself from youth up to near present that I will also have to album-ize; I filled a mailing size manila envelope with negatives, then had to get another one. I finally got some organization into this process by putting each girls photos into bags until I can file them.

It's sometimes sad and disturbing to see your life as it used to be. Me, skinny--actually skinny after the birth of my first daughter. I was standing, holding her, wearing a pair of shorts and a sleeveless top--two things I'd never dream of wearing now. Where did that skinny girl go? There are photos my husband, the Sgt., sent from Vietnam. Those will go in the girls albums.

Photos of New Orleans, riding a streetcar. Photo of me, kids and mother standing in line to see the King Tut display at the Audobon Park museum in New Orleans (no photos allowed inside) pics of the New Orleans World's Fair, pics of three of us young RN's in front of a house we rented in Biloxi Miss. after graduation; the lighthouse, us at the beach, pics of New York, pics of New Haven Connecticut and Yale, pics of New Mexico and Texas, pics of our high school class trip to Rock City Tennessee and Ruby Falls with its underground cavern and pools of blue water.

Pics of my house that has remained unchanged, just the landscape has changed. My house used to be situated in a gorgeous glade of hickory and oak trees. Now the trees are gone due to old age and hurricane damage. Now my house sits out in the open bare to the elements. I also took pics when I was making my rounds as a home health nurse, of old houses, old bridges and old people who were my patients.

It's a roller coaster ride of memories, the photos a zigzag of early life mixed with all the people and events from then to now. Some people in photos I have no idea who they are, so being ruthless, ditched them. But sometimes today I will go back in the office and work on it all again for an hour or so. If I don't, another year will come and go and all those photos will still be waiting. Ouch!

susil

posted on June 12, 2010 12:17 PM ()

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I went to an estate sale yesterday and it made me sad because I have instructed my children to liquidate my furniture in this way with the same company. The family had reserved their pictures and I was glad. It is so
sad to see old family photos trashed.
comment by elderjane on June 14, 2010 6:58 AM ()
I have hundreds of pix too and they are sort of sorted in envelopes labeled "family" "Syndicate" (my old company), "young me", etc. So they are in plastic sterilite drawers in the closet. I have no family to leave them to. Whoever inherits our detritus had better get a really big garbage bag.
comment by tealstar on June 12, 2010 8:51 PM ()
Hi teal, well I have family and know when I kick the bucket they'll throw away the box of newspaper clippings of my newspaper columns and other writings and books etc. I treasured--yep, they'll dump it all in a few super size garbage bags and consider it detritus.
reply by susil on June 13, 2010 3:57 PM ()
It's like eating an elephant--one bite at a time and it gets finished. O was never all that interested in the past... there are pictures in my office closet and if the nieces or anybody else want them after I drop they can have them. I rarely take them out. It was something I did when I'd start dating somebody new, but even that doesn't seem to matter when people get old(er). Good luck! And take small bites!
comment by jjoohhnn on June 12, 2010 12:43 PM ()
jj, that is the most excellent advice, and thank you. I have this timeline in my head, when really I can take years to do it--what does it matter to anyone but me? So I'll eat that elephant one bite at a time! Thanks again,
reply by susil on June 12, 2010 12:54 PM ()
The other day I said Wouldn't it be great to be 40 again. But not necessarily the 40 that I was with all the problems or complications, just a brand-new 40 knowing what I do now about life. As if aliens picked me up, rewound my age, and set me down. Now I have to decide if they should set me down in 1990 or 2010.
comment by troutbend on June 12, 2010 12:27 PM ()
Trout, I once went to a Halloween party in my white witch outfit and the makeup/wig, etc. masked my age and young men were flirting with me and I didn't know what to say because I couldn't speak their language. So it would be great to be 40 again but I'd have to learn a different way to be mentally.
reply by tealstar on June 12, 2010 8:48 PM ()

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