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I'm Gonna Drop Ya

I was washing dishes a few nights ago and had the phone tucked under my chin, talking to Dottie. So I say in the course of conversation as I looked out the window over the sink: "Hey, there's a full moon out tonight, so pretty."

Dottie immediately says "No there's not. The moon won't be full for 2 more days." I say "I looked at the calendar in the kitchen, and yep, it says full moon tonight."
Then Dottie wants to argue me down that I was wrong. I got so annoyed I almost dropped the phone into the dishwater. I don't know why she likes to needle me like that. If I say black, she says white, if I say up, she says down etc. She will argue with me over anything and everything.

I know some people are contentious and like to argue, and it doesn't help that Dottie and I are both people who always think they are right about everything. But all I want is peace and quiet and smooth sailing, I don't like the bull headed back and forth. I've known Dottie for 25 years and I'm wondering if it's worth it to hang on to an acquaintance ship that annoys me.

The minute she starts that attitude, I should say 'Bye' and not get pulled into any verbal exchange. That's what I'm going to do, Dottie, and if that doesn't work, I'm gonna drop ya.

susil

posted on Aug 2, 2010 9:12 AM ()

Comments:

I know exactly how you feel only my friend is constantly whining about every ache and pain.
comment by elderjane on Aug 3, 2010 12:52 PM ()
jeri, I know sooner or later Dottie will call and apologize--she needs me cause no one else will listen to her numerous list of health problems.
reply by susil on Aug 4, 2010 11:44 AM ()
I love Troutbend's reply. It seems our family, whom we love more than anyone else, seems to cause us the most heartache. Friends should indeed be our port in the storm.
comment by redimpala on Aug 2, 2010 7:06 PM ()
red; you'd think friends would be a port in the storm, but nooo.
I just need a break from Dottie before I go dotty,
reply by susil on Aug 3, 2010 12:41 PM ()
Friends are supposed to be our refuge from the crazy world. If we wanted a bunch of contention and dispute, we'd talk to our family.
comment by troutbend on Aug 2, 2010 12:03 PM ()
You nailed it there!
reply by susil on Aug 3, 2010 12:34 PM ()
Ed thinks being contrary is what I do. Of course, I do not argue about the irrefutable and in the case of the moon, there shouldn't have been an argument at all. Meanwhile, I say to Ed -- if you are out and out mistaken about something, why do I have to agree? Now you are in the middle, Su. Who are you going to agree with. Huh? Huh? If he gets really annoyed, I say, "Remember, you love me, the provider of the never-ending dinners, the every night bloody dinners, snarl."
comment by tealstar on Aug 2, 2010 11:17 AM ()
Dear contrarian, I love your reply to Ed!!
reply by susil on Aug 3, 2010 12:38 PM ()

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