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An Awesomer Week

I know that's not a word.

I can't believe that it's November 5th already - time sure flies when you're busy!

So I applied to Applebee's last week.

And...I just got hired at a new Applebee's near me! My orientation is tomorrow, and I am probably starting as a Hostess. The manager said that starting in December, the hostess does not get tips anymore, but they give them a higher hourly wage. I'll be working every Friday and Sunday through the school year, then once summer break arrives, I'll be bumping my hours up to 30-35 hours/wk. Hopefully I won't mess up too bad. I've never worked in a restaurant business before which freaks me out a little, but I've been told being a hostess is pretty easy. I'll still be babysitting a few hours a week, too. I should be rolling in dough! :)

Today was an excellent day. I had my second date with the boy I mentioned in an earlier post. He's the one in college. It took A LOT of talking and begging on my part to allow my parents to let me see him. I understand their concern for me but I was thrilled when they said it was okay. There were a ton of rules we have to follow - most of which were common one's like he had to meet them, must have me home on weekends no later than midnight, no going to his place, no drinking, etc. My mom would only allow it as long as we have "daytime" dates, which I thought was stupid at first, but now think is a great idea.

Pro's to daytime dates:

1. Lunch is cheaper than dinner.
2. It is easier to be spontaneous on a daytime date. For example, we went on a hike at the Arboretum and Nature Center followed by lunch at a nearby diner. This way, we got to spend more time getting to know one another
3. Increased activity. More fun places are open in the daytime than in the evening.
4. It's sort of implied that my date has good intentions. It shows that he's sincere, and isn't going out with me for the wrong reasons.
this one was especially important to my mom :)

I'm sure there are plenty more Pro's, but that's all I can think of for now.

My mom is worried that he'll want to move too fast. I don't see that happening -- he's so sweet and besides, I have no interest in being a teen mom. God no! I promised her that I'd talk to her or my older sister if I get uncomfortable or feel he's pushing me to do things I'm not ready for. I told her not to worry, but I'm sure she will. Kind of the way she is, but I love her anyways.

I'm going to leave you with a picture:



Anyways, have a super weekend!!


posted on Nov 6, 2010 3:49 PM ()

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From a parent's perspective, it's a tough position to be in. You are worried and concerned, because you want the best for your child. But you want to be trusting and not over-protective. Keep reassuring them (esp. Mom) that everything's okay. And Good Luck!
comment by solitaire on Nov 7, 2010 6:25 AM ()
You are so lucky to have a concerned parent and she is lucky to have such an understandng daughter....and he is very lucky to have such a good looking date.
comment by gapeach on Nov 6, 2010 8:13 PM ()
It's a good idea to have daytime dates - for all ages to begin with too
comment by febreze on Nov 6, 2010 5:11 PM ()
Oh yeah... I can't even imagine being a mom - I am so overly worried about my dog! When I first saw this picture I totally thought I was looking at a pic of my former co-worker. SO STRANGE! Good looking boy ya got there. Keep your head on straight and you'll be just fine.
comment by kristilyn3 on Nov 6, 2010 4:04 PM ()
You're very lucky to have such a loving caring Mom. I know exactly where she's coming from and you are being very mature in your preparation of dating & such.
comment by shesaidwhat on Nov 6, 2010 3:57 PM ()

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