Melly

Profile

Username:
mellowdee
Name:
Melly
Location:
Kelowna, BC
Birthday:
12/31
Status:
Not Interested

Stats

Post Reads:
70,619
Posts:
172
Last Online:
> 30 days ago
View All »

My Friends

4 days ago
10 days ago
> 30 days ago
> 30 days ago
> 30 days ago
> 30 days ago
> 30 days ago
> 30 days ago

My Bookmarks

Free Rice

Subscribe

Mellow Musings

Life & Events > Happy Changes
 

Happy Changes

Well, SIL's contractions are happening pretty frequently, so she went into the hospital a couple hours ago. Exciting stuff.

Needless to say, the in-laws wasted no time and were immediately on their way into town the moment they got the call. However, MIL has had a really bad cold lately, so I'm kind of wondering if they'll let her in the maternity ward? Oh man... if they don't, she'll have a conniption fit and start crying for sure. I wouldn't want to be there for that! I've seen how rude she can be to random waitresses, so I'd hate to see her reaction to someone who stands between her and her first grandchild. Yikes! Don't poke the bear. Hopefully they'll give her a surgical mask or something and let her in.

MIL keeps calling us to see if we have any updates and to ask why we're not at the hospital yet. I personally have no intention of going up to the hospital until my new niece or nephew is actually born... (like SIL suggested.) I don't see why we're expected to go there and hang out for hours n' hours on end with bated breath. But that's just me. I guess I'm kinda the least sentimental one of the bunch. :P

J tells me that on every television show or movie he has ever watched, everyone is always waiting at the hospital before the child is born. I think J watches too many movies. Of course, television and movies also taught him how to be romantic, so I can't curse at the boob tube too much.

Anyhow, we shall see what time will bring. I have a feeling I'm gonna be sitting around thumbing through outdated magazines at some point during the day. I just hope that SIL has a quick and relatively easy delivery and that the baby is healthy. Really, what more can you ask for?

And while I'm on the topic of nieces and nephews, I'm very happy to say that my sister had an appointment this morning with a local organization that helps people in her and my niece's situation. I was very happy to hear that!

Long story short, they asked my sister a million comprehensive questions, and determined that my niece definitely has anxiety issues. They would like to set up an appointment to meet with her themselves in 4 - 6 weeks, but in the meantime they suggested that she should start meeting with a school counsellor. So my sister immediately called the school to set that up.

While Sis was speaking to Niece's teacher, she made another appointment to go back to the school tomorrow to find out the results of my niece's learning assessment. It sounds like they found something, and should be able to accommodate her needs.

I'm so, so, so glad that she will start getting the help she needs. SO glad!

Today is a good day.

posted on Dec 16, 2008 12:48 PM ()

Comments:

Awesome news on the sister and niece front. I'm so glad.They are on the right track and in that system and it's all easier from this point on.

I've had three babies. I hated people waiting outside for me. I hope you didn't go.
comment by janetk on Dec 18, 2008 12:39 PM ()
Good news all around today!!! I'm impressed that you aren't letting MIL push you around. Personally, when my first grand daughter was born, I was there. I held the little one twenty minutes after she was born....but I was THE GRANDFATHER, for crying out loud! I see no reason for anybody else, other than the father, spending hours upon hours in a waiting room "thumbing through outdated magazines".(I really LIKE that expression!)
I'm also glad to hear that NIECE is going to get the help that she needs.
comment by hayduke on Dec 17, 2008 11:57 AM ()
Wonderful news that they are doing something to help your niece. I know things will straighten out for her and all will be well.
comment by sunlight on Dec 16, 2008 9:43 PM ()
comment by strider333 on Dec 16, 2008 8:48 PM ()
I don't understand why people would wait at the hospital. It could take hours or even a day. We didn't tell anyone until after baby #1 was born! I don't think anyone other than DH even bothered to visit me at the hospital for #2.
comment by imaginaryfriend on Dec 16, 2008 7:25 PM ()
I sure didn't want people waiting around for me to give birth! I almost didn't want them to see me right after either!
comment by elkhound on Dec 16, 2008 2:19 PM ()
so,I am not sure what kind of comment to make.Wait till the baby is born and why waste your time at the hospital.Cannot understand women.
Bah Humbug !!!!!!!!!!!!!
comment by fredo on Dec 16, 2008 2:02 PM ()
yay to good days!
I am totally with you on waiting at the hospital... why bother?? Especially is SIL already said she doesn't expect you to...
comment by kristilyn3 on Dec 16, 2008 1:29 PM ()
I'm glad your niece is getting the help she needs now while she is young.
comment by meranda on Dec 16, 2008 1:14 PM ()
Today is a good day indeed! Nice news there.
comment by shesaidwhat on Dec 16, 2008 12:58 PM ()

Comment on this article   


172 articles found   [ Previous Article ]  [ Next Article ]  [ First ]  [ Last ]