I was wondering last Friday if talking about deepest feelings and desires is related to age. Why wondering you might ask, well...
I was chatting with someone on yahoo. I had not talked to him for quite some time. I dont know what caused it but suddenly we started talking about things I never talk about in real life. I don't know if its related to age but I never discuss my sexual behaviour with friends. Actually weird because we all have our sexual things and habits. And do we want to know about sexual habits of others, well to be honest: yes I always am quite curious about what keep others busy in this subject. There is some kind of taboo on it and I really think it IS related to age. My kids talk very easy about their experiences with girlfriends. Off course I don't know if all the things they say really happen.
I just wished I was capable to talk about that subject so open. Actually i was wondering why that special subject is so hard to talk about. Men always talk about "how many times" and so... but never talk about playing with themselves. What are our needs sexually and do we get what we want? Do we talk about that open and honest? As I said: I wish I had the guts for it cause I need more then I get.
The internet gives the possibility to discuss the matters with others and as I said I really felt good being able to discuss my needs and behaviour in a personal chat. Its the anonymity what makes it possible. It doesn't matter if I know those e-friends for quite some time. There still is some anonymity. And if he reads it: thx for the chat again!