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Needs and Feelings

I was wondering last Friday if talking about deepest feelings and desires is related to age. Why wondering you might ask, well...
I was chatting with someone on yahoo. I had not talked to him for quite some time. I dont know what caused it but suddenly we started talking about things I never talk about in real life. I don't know if its related to age but I never discuss my sexual behaviour with friends. Actually weird because we all have our sexual things and habits. And do we want to know about sexual habits of others, well to be honest: yes I always am quite curious about what keep others busy in this subject. There is some kind of taboo on it and I really think it IS related to age. My kids talk very easy about their experiences with girlfriends. Off course I don't know if all the things they say really happen.
I just wished I was capable to talk about that subject so open. Actually i was wondering why that special subject is so hard to talk about. Men always talk about "how many times" and so... but never talk about playing with themselves. What are our needs sexually and do we get what we want? Do we talk about that open and honest? As I said: I wish I had the guts for it cause I need more then I get.
The internet gives the possibility to discuss the matters with others and as I said I really felt good being able to discuss my needs and behaviour in a personal chat. Its the anonymity what makes it possible. It doesn't matter if I know those e-friends for quite some time. There still is some anonymity. And if he reads it: thx for the chat again!

posted on Mar 31, 2008 1:43 AM ()

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It's all to do with machismo. if we play with ourselves that means we aren't attractive enough to get a partner. and if we don't have sex X times a week then we're not 'real' men and so on... all rubbish, but no man wants to feel he is less than a 'real' man - hence the secrecy. Good on you for being open sometimes at least.
comment by clovis on Apr 2, 2008 1:02 AM ()
We were brought up not to talk openly about sex and emotions--the 'kids' today are different which is a good thing.
I talk open and honestly about all aspects of sex with my friends in person--very seldom on the Internet.
PS I have not played with myself since I was 14--seriously--I always went still do, to otehrs to paly with me!!
comment by greatmartin on Mar 31, 2008 6:05 PM ()
Good point! Men brag! Women blush!
comment by redimpala on Mar 31, 2008 3:24 PM ()
Your right on that.Men do not talk about sex.Like you say
just brag about how many times etc.
Think that most have been brought up this way and not quite
open about talking sex with o thers.
Good point you made there.
comment by fredo on Mar 31, 2008 8:28 AM ()

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