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Breaking the Smoking Addiction


This is the first in a series of posts that I am planning to write about health. These posts will focus on how, with common sense and just a modicum of will power, you can overcome much of what ails you without prescriptions, over-the-counter remedies, or other outside sources which are only after your money.
Let me state clearly and emphatically that I am not a doctor, and I have no formal training in any field of health whatsoever. All I know is what has worked for me. That’s it. And all I’m doing is sharing my personal experiences with you, just like I did with the two posts I recently wrote about how I rid myself of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder.
If what I say in these posts makes sense to you, I would suggest you talk to your doctor about it first. Everybody is different, and different folks have different pre-existing conditions which may have a bearing on if certain regimens are healthy for you or not. What is good for one person may be dangerous for another.
With that disclaimer out of the way, here goes:
I am going to turn fifty-five years old this Friday. I was born on April 4, 1953. My mom tells me that the day I was born was warm and sunny with a light breeze blowing the daffodils around.
I mention my age here not to get birthday greetings or cards or cakes. I mention it because, at fifty-five years old, I am in the best shape of my life. And, with the exception of the one minimal dose of medication that I take for my heart, I did it without drugs and without programs and without a membership in any gym.
The first of my health issues that I’d like to discuss is smoking. I think that the greatest thing that I ever did for my health was to quit smoking. It was also, without a doubt, the hardest thing that I’ve ever done in my life.
I started smoking cigarettes when I was thirteen years old. Like most kids back then, I did it to fit in with the group, to be cool. However, within five years, that cool activity turned into a two-and-a-half pack-a-day addiction.
Over the years, I had tried to quit smoking probably fifty times. Every time I tried, it lasted less than twenty-four hours.
I would have three or four cigarettes before getting out of bed in the morning, lighting a new one off the old one with the ashtray sitting on my chest. I would repeat the same ritual at night before turning the light off.
I would gauge how long it took to drive somewhere by how many cigarettes it took to get there. On long drives, I would get bored and play a game where I would try to have only one cigarette every twenty miles. (Can you believe that? It takes five or six minutes to smoke a cigarette, and it only takes about twenty-five minutes to drive twenty miles on the highway!)
I couldn’t sit through a movie in a theater without getting up and going outside for a smoke. That’s how bad the craving was.
At work, I would try to have only one cigarette every twenty minutes, but I seldom succeeded at that.
After several attempts to quit had failed, I all but resigned myself to the fact that I was going to be a smoker all of my life, and that my life would be shortened because of it.
Then my Dad, who was also a heavy smoker, had his first massive heart attack at the age of forty-nine, and it almost killed him. According to his cardiologist, the main cause of this heart attack was cigarette smoking.
Then and there, I decided that that was it. Come hell nor high water, I was going to kick the addiction. So, I learned how to hypnotize myself and others, and, within thirty days of my first self-treatment, I was free of the cigarette habit.
I didn’t use Nicorette. I didn’t use the patch. I just decided that I was going to do it, and I trained my brain so that I could.
Let me tell you something, these companies that manufacture "the patch" and gums like Nicorette don’t really care if you quit smoking. In fact, they hope that you don’t. If you actually do quit, they lose a customer! If you don’t quit, you may just use their product over and over again. (Somebody once told me that insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting different results.)
I smoked my last cigarette on May 5, 1982. That’s twenty-six years ago. No cigarettes in twenty-six years, and I was a guy who, back in my twenties, couldn’t go twenty minutes without jonesing for nicotine!
I’m not telling you this to brag. I’m telling you this to let you know that you don’t need the products to quit smoking. All you need is the determination to quit. That’s it! You can do it on your own.
You don’t need anybody to tell you that smoking will kill you. You know that. It’s a fact that is proven hundreds of thousands of times every year. (Did you know that every actor who played The Marlboro Man back when cigarettes were advertised on television died from lung cancer?) Knowing that fact doesn’t help. What you need to know is that you have it inside of yourself to actually quit!
Now, I’ve helped a few people kick this addiction with a few little tricks to enhance your will power, your knowledge of your addiction, and your knowledge of your own smoking habits. I don’t want to bore those of you who are not interested with that stuff here, but if you are interested, send me a private message from this blogsite, and I will give you the information that worked for me. This is, of course, completely free of charge. I’m not in the business of helping people quit. Even when I hypnotize people and teach them how to hypnotize themselves to quit smoking, there is no charge. First of all, I am not licensed to do such things, and secondly, even if I was, I wouldn’t charge for the services. That’s how strongly I feel about this topic.
I do it because I know that smoking will kill you, and there are a whole slew of people out there who are multimillionaires because they sell you the poison that is slowly and surely killing you and those who are around you.

posted on Apr 1, 2008 5:46 PM ()

Comments:

Congratulations and Happy Birthday! I have never been a smoker but I have used hypnosis successfully for a number of things, including conquering fear of flying, control of chronic pain, weight loss, and stress management. It is a wonderful mental skill.
comment by marta on Apr 4, 2008 10:38 PM ()
Happy Birthday!!!!
comment by elfie33 on Apr 4, 2008 8:43 AM ()
Good for you! You have a great message and I hope this blog encourages those who are serious about quitting smoking, to really quit. My experience as a smoker only lasted about 6 years... so I didn't exactly have thirty years of the nasty nicotine habit built up behind me like many other smokers do. I found it very easy to quit, because I knew I *wanted* to quit. At the time, I worked in a smoky bar, where temptation would be at its greatest... during my breaks, instead of lighting a cigarette, I would have a cup of tea. It took about 5 or 6 minutes to drink it -- the same amount of time it took for the craving to pass. After work when we had our free staff drink, I'd hold my pint of beer with both hands, instead of the usual beer in one hand, smoke in the other. By learning to always keeping my hands busy for a couple months, eventually the habit wore off. I'm glad I had it so easy... I know not everyone does. But I still believe the key is genuinely "wanting" it. I know a lot of smokers who are all talk, no action.
comment by mellowdee on Apr 3, 2008 8:48 AM ()
Jim, this is a great public service for those that smoke. My brother cannot stop, although he's tried many times. My husband used to smoke cigars! The way he stopped was rather like your #5. Only he had help. He got a subliminal message CD, and played it everywhere he went: at home, in the car, at work. He only heard the sound of relaxing waves, but the voice under the waves was telling him that he didn't need to smoke and gave him encouragement. He did stop after a few weeks of this. What a relief... to me! Thanks for this message!
comment by sunlight on Apr 2, 2008 10:32 PM ()
I've tried everything else...maybe I'll give this a try. My problem (and it's a biggie) is I don't really WANT to quit. It killed my Grandpa, lung cancer. I know I SHOULD quit...it's nuts. My precious daughter HATE's my smoking. I've quit other addictions but this one is murder...no pun intended.
comment by justmyopinion on Apr 2, 2008 3:05 PM ()
I quit smoking 28 years ago and I've never looked back. I didn't use a patch or a cure of any kind, I simply over a period of time smoked one less cigarette a day until I was down to 4, then I said, what the heck and never bought any more. It took a little while to get over it, but it was one of the bravest things I ever did. I tell any smoker, that they will not quit till they actually want to. Then you'll have the will and the stamina to quit. Great writing!
comment by teacherwoman on Apr 2, 2008 12:26 PM ()
It's like any addiction. It all boils down to one word: WILLPOWER.
comment by solitaire on Apr 2, 2008 6:43 AM ()
I stopped drinking 27 years ago--I have enough discipline to lose weight when I have to but in the 60 years I have been smoking I have never even thought or wanted to stop and at 72 I certainly won't--yes, I have problems that could probably be traced back to my smoking and/or my fat and/or my drinking and/or the way I treated my body in the past and I don't exercise--with all that I am happy with me and who I am and how I live--but that's me.
comment by greatmartin on Apr 1, 2008 8:32 PM ()
Let me add my voice to Jim's post...I too started young and got up to 3 packs per day. In '77, when my then 2 year old daughter reacted negatively to my smoking in her presence, I realized I couldn't continue. I stopped cold and haven't had one since. After a couple of weeks, it wasn't so tough. As a result, my health is better than it could ever have been with smoking...and so is my daughter's! Why keep sucking in poison? The rewards of stopping are so incredible!! When I stopped, a pack cost 50 cents. Now 50 cents is a rapper; how much are cigarettes?
comment by looserobes on Apr 1, 2008 7:31 PM ()
I too started early and quit in 1990. It was somewhat tough for the first year after, but now I can't even remember myself as doing the behaviors associated with smoking! To anybody toying with quitting: Keep trying, it will happen sooner or later!
comment by jjoohhnn on Apr 1, 2008 7:15 PM ()
Mr. Bugg was a smoker when we married. He smoked Camels without filters. ewwww. He tried to quit many times but then when he had the first of his heart "events"(as the doctor called them... sheesh) he became determined to quit. and he did. I was so proud of him. It may have added a few years to his life. He still died way too soon, though. congrats to you, Jimmy, for being smoke free for so long.

reguards
yer impressed pal
bugg
comment by honeybugg on Apr 1, 2008 6:20 PM ()
I have adopted one simple rule that is brining me peace and harmony with my health. Moderation. We can enjoy just about everything this earth has to offer as long as we practice moderation in everything. Laugh at me or not I will tell you what I think...people's minds are suggestible and the media/corporations/companies are spoon feeding our minds with ideas of how bad the addictions are. Making them more real and intense for people so they don't quit. It is this "mental placebo" effect that has man searching for help everywhere and anywhere someone promises a quick fix.
The fix is "moderation". I smoked a cig three weeks ago. Before that it had bee maybe three months.....my point being. I understand they will have negative effects if I smoked any more so I am SATISFIED with one and do not crave to another. For some reason the media has people believing they can't and should not be moderate....
moderation is the key to happiness and health.
comment by pecan on Apr 1, 2008 6:09 PM ()
I agree. However, with me, the meds plus yoga made a BIG difference on my OCD-anxiety-depression hell. It was like having a rotting molar removed for good.
comment by barbiebrains on Apr 1, 2008 6:05 PM ()
oh man you are making me want to ask R to stop and get a pack on his way home!!! We quit again starting today... I hate it.
I had to laugh at your car game - I totally do the same thing, only I do by 1/2 hours... it's HARD though! I smoke like a fiend when I am in the car!
Um... Do I hafta email ya? I will do that.
comment by kristilyn3 on Apr 1, 2008 6:02 PM ()

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