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Life & Events > Mcmillan, Beck, Stevens, Porn in the South, Etc.
 

Mcmillan, Beck, Stevens, Porn in the South, Etc.




 Watercooler: Constance McMillen to lead NYC Pride
March



, 365gay.com










I
never went to prom. Maybe it’s because I was in two different high
schools my senior year. Maybe it’s because my popularity score hovered
in the negative numbers. Who knows. Memories from my teen years are a
bit fuzzy. Either way, I’m a tad bit jealous of Constance McMillen . While the high school
prom she was given was the “fake prom” fiasco that Twitter spent much of last
week screaming about — yeah, there were a lot of capital letters.

But
the payoff for that disgrace is pretty spectacular. McMillen got a
$30,000 scholarship for college from Ellen DeGeneres. She’ll be
attending the National Center for Lesbian Rights’ big bash often
referred to as “lesbian prom.” And the stars are aligning for a gay prom in her home state of Mississippi – with
donations for the likes of celesbian Iron Chef Cat Cora and N’SYNC’s
Lance Bass.

And just announced today, McMillen will be one of the
grand marshals of New York City’s 41st LGBT pride march. “I never
dreamed so many people would support my fight to take my girlfriend to
the prom, much less that I’d end up being asked to be a Grand Marshal at
NYC Pride,” said McMillen, in a news release. (The march is set for
June 27, and half a million folks are expected to participate.)

While
all of that seems nice, I have to salute McMillen for what must have
been a tough journey – being out in a small, Southern town. It takes a
lot of courage to come out in high school, and it’s something I never
had the guts to do. Her bravery deserves applause. You go, girl!

***
 

On
the opposite end of the spectrum is Fox News host Glenn Beck , who deserves yet another round of boos. On hearing the news that
nearly 90-year-old Supreme Court Justice John Paul Stevens plans to retire, he managed in a single sentence to marginalize
everyone who is not what he is – a white male. “She could be the devil,
she could say ‘I hate America, I want to destroy America,’ and that way
they’ll only be able to say, ‘Oh, Why do you hate gay immigrant black,
handicapped women.’ Because that’s what this has to be.”

***


Friday is the 15th annual Day of
Silence
at high schools across the country. Students
nationwide take a vow of silence to bring attention to the bullying and
harassment LGBT students experience at school. Fox News took the opportunity to mock the event,
posting a story that said, “Thousands of public schools nationwide will
allow students affiliated with a gay and lesbian advocacy group to
sponsor an anti-bullying ‘Day of Silence.’ ” Afflicted? The story goes
on to say the event is a waste of money, citing experts from
“conservative family organizations.” No bias there, right? Laurie
Higgins, director of school advocacy for the Illinois Family Institute,
told Fox, “There are better ways to use taxpayer money. We send our kids
there to learn the subjectmatter,not … to be unwillingly exposed to
political protest during instructional time.”

If we look back, say
four paragraphs in time, to the case of Constance McMillen, it is clear
that bullying and harassment is a integral part of high school for LGBT
kids. But she is hardly the only one. Carl Walker-Hoover, an
11-year-old who did not even identify as gay, took his own life after
enduring anti-gay bullying and harassment. Or think of Matthew Shepard,
the gay college student who was brutally killed in Wyoming. The list
goes on and on.

Maybe it’s time folks
like Laurie Higgins go back to school to learn a lesson in diversity.
That is the subject matter taxpayers should be happy to pay for.

***


“Facts of Life” graduate Mindy Cohn will be starring in the upcoming film “Violet Tendencies” as the
“world’s oldest fag hag.” And, wow, does she have a cast of adorable
boys. The film, directed by Casper Andreas, follows Cohn as she tries to
put some distance between herself and her gay boys in an effort to find
a straight man. It’s basically a
looking-for-love-in-all-the-wrong-places saga. And it sounds like fun .

***
The
folks at Queeried used Google trends to compile some very
interesting comparison data. A top 10 list of the states that spend the
most time on gay porn sites finds Southern states like those dirty
videos a lot more than they are willing to admit. They are the same
states where gays are not allowed to marry. The same states where prom’s
occasionally get canceled if a lesbian wants to attend with a date. And
the same states where a church urges a town to vote against a mayoral
candidate with a “no homo” campaign.


  1. Vermont

  2. Mississippi

  3. Louisiana

  4. Arkansas

  5. Nevada

  6. Kentucky

  7. Alabama

  8. South
    Carolina

  9. Oklahoma

  10. Florida


Queered
pointedly asks, “So come on then Mississippi, Lousiana and Arkansas,
we’d like an answer. If so many of you are against the idea of two men
or two women being married to each other then why are so many of you
happily spending your hours watching them get down and dirty on your
computer screens?”

I can’t wait to hear the answer.

posted on Apr 14, 2010 7:04 PM ()

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