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Don't Know How I Feel About This--strange

'Pregnant man' Thomas Beatie gives birth to baby girl

















The pregnant man who conceived a child after a gender-reassignment operation
has apparently given birth to a healthy baby girl.

“She’s really cute, really pretty,” a source told ABC News.
Thomas Beatie, 34, told People magazine that he had given birth at a hospital
in Bend, Oregon on Sunday. “The only thing different about me is that I
can’t breastfeed my baby. But a lot of mothers don’t,” he said, adding that
he planned to publish a book about the experience this autumn.

The bearded Mr Beatie was born a girl and named Tracy Lagondino, but had
gender-reassignment surgery and is now legally male and married to Nancy.
The couple, together for ten years, run a custom screenprinting business in
Bend.






He decided to get pregnant because his wife had had a hysterectomy. He was
able to conceive because he kept his female organs when he switched genders.

To conceive, Mr Beatie stopped the bimonthly testosterone injections he was
receiving as part of his sex change.

The couple bought anonymous donor vials from a sperm bank and, struggling to
find a doctor willing to help them, resorted to home insemination with a
syringe bought from a vet that is typically used to feed birds.

“I actually opted not to do anything to my reproductive organs because I
wanted to have a child one day. I see pregnancy as a process and it doesn’t
define who I am,” Mr Beatie told the TV talk-show host Oprah Winfrey in
April. “I feel it’s not a male or female desire to have a child. It’s a
human need. I’m a person and I have the right to have a biological child,”
he said.

Mr Beatie caused a sensation when he went public with his pregnancy in
Advocate, a gay magazine. He posed holding his bulging naked stomach for a
photograph reminiscent of Demi Moore’s headline-grabbing 1991 cover photo
for Vanity Fair. “How does it feel to be a pregnant man? Incredible,” he
wrote. “I will be my daughter’s father, and Nancy will be her mother. We
will be a family,” he said.

A cameraman for the TMZ website filmed him leaving the hospital in a hooded
sweatshirt, without a bulging stomach. In his Advocate article, Mr Beatie
recounted the struggles he faced to have a child.

“Doctors have discriminated against us, turning us away due to their religious
beliefs. Health care professionals have refused to call me by a male pronoun
or recognise Nancy as my wife. Receptionists have laughed at us. Friends and
family have been unsupportive; most of Nancy’s family doesn’t even know I’m
transgender,” he said. His first successful insemination ended in a
life-threatening ectopic pregnancy with triplets, resulting in the loss of
all his embryos and his right Fallopian tube. “When my brother found out
about my loss, he said, ‘It’s a good thing that happened. Who knows what
kind of monster it would have been?,” he wrote.

Mr Beatie has said he may have

posted on July 3, 2008 4:48 PM ()

Comments:

I think it's wonderful. Sure, it's strange, but if he was biologically able...because he was BORN that way...and he was willing...because we all have rights to have children...then what he did is not so strange when you think of it that way. Just as we are born the way we are...that's what makes us weird or strange to others, so are others born to be different. I think it took courage, a lot of natural instinct and desire, love, and the exercising of the right to bear a child. I think it's sweet and personal decision between him and his wife.
comment by donnamarie on July 9, 2008 10:28 PM ()
That's really sweet - and tragic that once again religion breeds hatred and pain... it's always the same but religious propaganda is so good everyone still thinks it is only a minority of religionists who are cruel, when cruelty and discrimination is the basic doctrine on which religion is based.
comment by clovis on July 3, 2008 8:18 PM ()
After reading the story about this family in The Advocate, I really thought it was sweet. His wife could not have a baby because of a medical procedure. He sacrificed his identity for a few months so they could have the baby they so wanted.
AJ
comment by lunarhunk on July 3, 2008 7:05 PM ()
I'm with you martin
comment by teacherwoman on July 3, 2008 4:52 PM ()

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