Larry Kramer, the award-winning playwright of “The Normal Heart” and longtime gay rights advocate, married his partner, David Webster, on Wednesday in the intensive care unit of NYU Langone Medical Center,
where Mr. Kramer has been recovering from surgery for a bowel
obstruction. Mr. Webster, in a telephone interview on Thursday, said the
couple had set the wedding date a few weeks earlier, before Mr.
Kramer’s health flare-up.
The original plan – to be married on the terrace of their Greenwich
Village apartment with two witnesses and the officiant, Judge Eve
Preminger – was scrapped in favor of the intensive care unit, where two
dozen friends and relatives attended the noontime ceremony led by Judge
Preminger.
“I had been traveling when Larry went into the hospital,” Mr. Webster
said, “and when I was back and he was able to talk, he told me he had
invited 20 people to the I.C.U. for the wedding. So it turned into a
little party at his bedside.”
The two men exchanged Cartier rings they had purchased last week, Mr. Webster said. Instead of vows, they spoke from the heart.
“Why would Larry need a script?” Mr. Webster said, laughing.
Mr. Kramer was resting on Thursday morning and not available for an
interview. One of the first prominent advocates in the early 1980s for
government action against H.I.V. and AIDS, Mr. Kramer went on to help found the Gay Men’s Health Crisis and Act Up and to write acclaimed plays
about gay men and AIDS, most notably “The Normal Heart,” which won the
Tony Award for best play revival on Broadway in 2011. Mr. Kramer
received a special Tony in June for humanitarian service.
Mr. Kramer had held a skeptical view of state laws permitting gay
marriage as long as the federal Defense of Marriage Act was in place; in
2011 he referred to such unions as “feel-good marriages” because they
conveyed few tangible benefits, since the federal law restricted
hundreds of government benefits to heterosexual marriages. But after the
Supreme Court, in a 5-to-4 ruling, struck down the Defense of Marriage
Act last month, Mr. Kramer decided it was time to marry, Mr. Webster
said.
Mr. Kramer, 78, and Mr. Webster, an architect who is 67, dated in the
1970s and have been partners since the mid-1990s. Mr. Kramer based
central characters in his 1978 novel “Faggots” on himself and Mr.
Webster.
Mr. Webster said that Mr. Kramer checked himself into the hospital on
Friday and had bypass surgery early Sunday morning. Mr. Kramer is
feeling better, Mr. Webster added, and hopes to move to a private room
soon.
“He wasn’t able to attend the wedding reception afterward at
Riverpark,” Mr. Webster said, “but we’ll have a party once he’s out of
the hospital.”