Not only CAN you be happy, but also you DESERVE to be happy and WILL be happy. As long as your lips are high enough to breathe, you WILL get through this.YOU ARE MY FRIEND "The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand, not the kindly smile, not the joy of companionship; it is the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when he discovers that someone believes in him and is willing to trust him with his friendship." ... Ralph Waldo Emerson