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Mother's Day

My grandmother always said Mother's Day was the silliest thing. She had nine children and 25 grandchildren, so probably received a goodly number of cards over the course of her long life-time. Once, maybe, and then she let everyone know that Every Day is Mother's Day so they stopped sending them.



On mother's day I do envy all those small appliances some of the moms receive. But I'm sure it's a case of the grass being greener, because I can imagine tearing off the gift wrap and having to fake being delighted to receive a pizza heater when I'd rather have had a spice grinder.

This is where my grandmother lived. Located out in the southwestern middle of nowhere next to the Navajo reservation, they didn't have electricity until the 1940s, and when they got it, there weren't any outlets in the kitchen for small appliances.



I thought about my grandmother every day when she was alive. Do you have someone like that in your life? It's a special feeling.

Spouses don't count, because we have to think of them several times a day, usually around meal time when deciding what they might like to have for the next meal.



posted on May 11, 2012 10:30 AM ()

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I think of my mom and the way of her speech, and how funny she could be. And her sincerity.
comment by tealstar on May 16, 2012 3:09 AM ()
You've just reminded me of how funny my mother was. We could stay up late just talking and laughing.
reply by troutbend on May 16, 2012 6:57 AM ()
Cool pics! I don't have anything further to add.
comment by kristilyn3 on May 13, 2012 4:22 PM ()
One of my cousins sent me a picture from the 1950s taken down there at the trading post, and at first I thought it was of my grandmother feeding the chickens, but turned out it was my mother feeding the chickens, probably not long after my older sister Mary died of a brain tumor. I'd never seen a picture of my mom during that time so I didn't recognize her.
reply by troutbend on May 16, 2012 6:56 AM ()
My dad! He died suddenly of a heart attack when I was 22. So many times I have thought of him and missed him. He loved children more than anything. He would have made Kenna and Holly's lives so special. They will never know what they missed not having had a chance to know him.
comment by redimpala on May 12, 2012 10:51 AM ()
My dad was the fun one! He loved to surprise my brothers and me with special gifts. He would have done the same for my girls. What a loss for them and for me to lose him when I was just beginning my adult life. He died just a few days before I graduated from college.
reply by redimpala on May 16, 2012 8:00 AM ()
Children who don't get to know both their grandparents get only half the picture of where their own parents came from. There is a balance in any marriage, and sometimes the one who died first was the fun one, leaving the seemingly less fun one behind. Or the other way around - the mad cap one is still with us, and the steadying influence is gone.
reply by troutbend on May 16, 2012 6:53 AM ()
Happy Mothers Day.
comment by solitaire on May 12, 2012 5:09 AM ()
Mothers have a lot to worry about. Never a day goes by that I don't talk to
or think of my children in an anxious way. They never get so old that they
aren't your babies.
comment by elderjane on May 11, 2012 6:43 PM ()
I can see that in my mother-in-law - call her on any given day and she'll have a litany of worries on behalf of her daughter - the dangerous driving weather, the slacker husband, the state of daughter's health. I don't think she frets about the sons nearly as much.
reply by troutbend on May 16, 2012 6:48 AM ()
I had an aunt I always think of and she has been dead over 20 years.
In a way your grandmother with her 'Every Day is Mother's Day' echos my mother but not in a nice way--will write about it Sunday,
comment by greatmartin on May 11, 2012 10:56 AM ()
When I read your story, I wondered how many other women have said that same thing.
reply by troutbend on May 16, 2012 6:46 AM ()

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