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Good Intentions

My mother often said 'the road to hell is paved with good intentions.' I always took it to mean that people told themselves, and sometimes other people, that they intended to do something good, but then didn't. As in announcing the intention to cook up a dinner and deliver it to the neighbors, but never getting around to it. That's definition number two in Wikipedia.

The other definition is that well-intended things may have unexpected consequences, like importing an exotic animal to eat a persistent pest, but once all the pests are gone, the new animal becomes the pest.

With my mother, it was the first one, and I can remember so many disappointments when she didn't follow through on something she told me she was going to do. I don't know if she realized I saw that as a problem, or she had so many plans the ones she didn't follow through on were not significant enough to think about.

I was intending to post here more often, but time gets away from me, and all of a sudden it has been too long since the last one. After several weeks' absence, our adult foxes are back, and their winter coats are growing in.

Sometimes the game camera catches one in an especially fetching pose.


After a month of warm, dry weather, we were hoping for snow today, or at least some rain, but it's just cloudy and chilly and humid out, with sunny weather coming for the rest of the week.

posted on Oct 12, 2023 3:46 PM ()

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31.5F today after daytime temps in the upper 50s and 60.But no surprise there. The growing season has basically been over anyway. There is a heuristic in socal psych called the Fundamental Attribution Error. The short story is that we judge ourselves by our intentions and we judge others by their actions. Seems to fit with your mother's behavior. She intended to do it, so her part of the bargain was completed.
comment by jjoohhnn on Oct 13, 2023 8:15 AM ()
That sounds right - I'm sure her road to hell veered the other direction because of that theory.
reply by traveltales on Oct 18, 2023 11:03 AM ()
As a kid my mother 'taught' me that 'promises were made to be broken'---oh, 20 years later my therapist had a ball with that one!!!
comment by greatmartin on Oct 12, 2023 9:00 PM ()
I can imagine. I don't have children, but if I did, I would be careful not to promise them anything. Poor kids, they're better off having other parents.
reply by traveltales on Oct 18, 2023 12:29 PM ()

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