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A Muddy Hole

A former co-worker phoned yesterday to tell me about going to the funeral of a mutual acquaintance. What? Yesterday it rained so hard all day I had to turn the car around and come home because I couldn't see the road in front of me. All day, hours and hours of white out rain.

Alice said she wore boots with heels and walking in the cemetery, the heels sunk into the boggy ground with every step, and water seeped into the boots. She and a friend shared a beach umbrella to keep from drowning, but the rain was blown in, slanted sideways from gusts, and the umbrella got turned inside out.
That's when she left and came home. She said it seemed a shame someone would live to be an octogenarian and have to be buried in a muddy hole. The majority of people down here aren't put in a vault; the casket is put straight into the ground. Thinking about that waterlogged casket gives me the shivers--Brrrr!

Bye from soggy south Mississippi, susil.

posted on Jan 11, 2009 1:33 PM ()

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Reminds me of my Aunt Dorothy who is buried in Florida Mesa Baptist Cemetery (pronounced Flor-eee-dah) in southwest Colorado. It was muddy at her burial, and I lined the foot part of the car with newspapers so Aunt Hallie and I wouldn't track it up.
comment by troutbend on Jan 11, 2009 9:24 PM ()
A real Irish wake consists of the dearly departed wrapped in a shroud in the living room while every living acquaintance they ever had gets screaming blind drunk. It is a tradition that can be gone anytime soon.
comment by lizbeth on Jan 11, 2009 8:03 PM ()
I went to an "Irish wake" once in an Irish bar in Manhattan. The departed had requested it. No one was to be sad, and everyone was to get smashed. Separate what happens to the corporeal you from you. It doesn't matter what your remains go through. It is the essence of you that counts.
comment by tealstar on Jan 11, 2009 4:05 PM ()
I would never consider cremation before, but yesterday nudged me
into thinking about it. I think that big noisy party is a great
idea!
comment by susil on Jan 11, 2009 3:03 PM ()
That is why I think cremation is the better option. It is neat, effective, less hard on the survivors and personally, I am telling the kids to opt for a big, noisy party as a send off in lieu of a Memorial service.
comment by elderjane on Jan 11, 2009 2:09 PM ()

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