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A Long Way from Home

Yesterday I was in the post office and heard two men talking. One of them had what sounded like a strong Cajun accent, so as he walked by I asked what part of Louisiana he was from. He said "Not Louisiana. Mexico!"
He had married a local red haired girl 30 years ago and learned all the English he knew right here in South Mississippi.
Well I'll be darn. So that's what red neck English sounds like filtered through a Mexican accent.

So I tell him my former mother-in-law was from Monterrey Mexico. He tells me in Spanish where he came from in Mexico--one of those unpronounceable states in interior Mexico. He was not a mestizo, a mix of Spaniard and native Indian blood. He was pure Mexican Indian.

His brown face had deep wrinkles. He had given up his culture, his family; parents, brothers, sisters, and relatives to stay here. I suspect he rarely if ever got to go back to see them. I could smell alcohol on his breath. I felt a stab of sympathy. "You're a long way from home," I said. He looked at me, and he knew I knew what was in his heart. He hugged me as tightly as if I were his sister, and we parted.

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posted on Sept 9, 2010 9:45 AM ()

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This is so poignant, it makes me homesick just to think about how we all have lost loved ones and places in our lives. Some of them places that call to us, like Gallup, New Mexico for some people.
comment by troutbend on Sept 10, 2010 8:39 AM ()
After seeing Mexico and knowing the depth of poverty there, I know this man traded up for a better life in the US for what his life would have been in Mexico--but in the trade, he gave up his family ties.
Oh Gallup calls to me so much--love that place.
reply by susil on Sept 10, 2010 8:59 AM ()
You speak Spanish? I'm impressed. How sweet that you and he connected.
comment by tealstar on Sept 9, 2010 2:48 PM ()
Hi teal; I used to speak a little Spanish but it's rusty from disuse.
I knew that this man traded one life for another and given up close family ties by doing so.
reply by susil on Sept 10, 2010 11:33 AM ()
You have such interesting encounters.
comment by elderjane on Sept 9, 2010 12:11 PM ()
Maybe it's just a southern thing or a Mississippi thing to talk to people where ever you find them-but that's what people do here.
reply by susil on Sept 10, 2010 11:35 AM ()

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