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The Jackie Tapes

I watched the Diane Sawyer special about the tape recordings Jacqueline Kennedy made 4 months after Jack died.
I was surprised that she was so traditional in her views of
the wife in a marriage. She had that Beaver Cleaver mother attitude of that time--that when a husband comes home from a hard day at work, the wife should look attractive and provide a calming environment for her husband. The children should be well behaved, and make being at home as pleasant as possible for the hard working hubby.

She truly loved, admired and respected Jack, and said she didn't think she was his intellectual equal. She said it thrilled her when she did something he approved of. I believe if she knew he had women on the side, she would have thought that was okay because a man under such pressure needed his dalliances.
She was a fashionista of the finst caliber (I loved her clothes.) Her youth and beauty made some women catty towards her. She had some barbed comments about some famous women who crossed her path.
She said she was only a couple of days past a miscarriage and was invited to a social function by Mamie Eisenhower. She said Mamie didn't provide adequate seating for her even though she was about to faint from the exertion. She took this as a deliberate snub.

She had sharp comments about Indira Ghandi; among other things a "prune, and bitter." She had acerbic comments about Lyndon Johnson and almost every famous person she met, even as she charmed them to pieces. She sniped that Eunice Shriver, (Maria's mother) was always at Jack to give a cabinet post to her husband, Sargent, because she wanted to be a Cabinet wife.

If you saw the show, I'd like your opinion.

susil

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posted on Sept 16, 2011 4:17 PM ()

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Gossip by and about the dead isn't news. JFK is dead, Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis is dead, John F. Kennedy Junior is dead. I can't imagine what possessed Caroline Kennedy Schlossberg, a lawyer, writer and editor, and the only the surviving member of that small family, to dredge up these tapes. It makes a public spectacle of her mother's grief process. Times sure have changed, and not for the better. Let the past lie quiet with the dead.
comment by stella on Sept 29, 2011 2:05 AM ()
Hi stella and thanks for reading. I don't agree altogether about the "let the past lie quiet with the dead" thinking. There are a lot of dictators who have misused their power and murdered people, and who fervently wish the world at large would follow that exact line of reasoning.
Think about Laos. Think about Idi Amin, etc. So many of them.
No, the truth must come out for things to ever change. And as for Jackie and JFK, he was our president; she 1st lady. When you put yourself in the public eye like that, you belong to the public you serve.
Who said "The truth shall set you free?"
reply by susil on Sept 30, 2011 1:40 PM ()
Have heard snippets of the tapes on the news. Some have said that her opinions of Johnson were influenced at the time of the interview by Jack and Bobby Kennedy's utter and total dislike of Lyndon. I like Jackie because she had opinions and clearly she was brave or comfortable enough with her friend, historian Arthur Schlesinger, to freely express herself. She went on to make a life for herself out of the shadow of being the assassinated President's widow, which would have been a glass prison. I admired her.
comment by marta on Sept 18, 2011 2:44 PM ()
Hi marta; Hope you are well!
I agree with your comments..and didn;t know she smoked, which was surprising to me.
reply by susil on Sept 28, 2011 10:10 PM ()
There are different ways to be smart. In that time you didn't try to be smarter than your guy even if you were. I don't think she was all that okay with Jack's infidelities and that is why Onassis got to her before she was widowed. I admired her. She was programmed to be a Stepford wife but wasn't all that compliant. Like the best of Southern women, she knew how to charm to get her way. I don't think Mamie snubbed. She was in the clouds most of the time because she was a drunk.
comment by tealstar on Sept 17, 2011 4:31 AM ()
Ha! I didn't know that about Mamie!
I enjoyed the snippets of newsreel interspersed with Diane Sawyer's commentary, like when Jackie redid the White House and the results were televised. I like that she rescued pieces of old furnishings and refurbished them and put them back in the White House. She'd have been a great interior decorater. I was also impressed that she spoke fluent Spanish and other languages.
reply by susil on Sept 17, 2011 6:55 AM ()
I missed seeing that show, unfortunately. I wonder how much Jack rubbed it in to her that she was his intellectual inferior; I can just see all her in-laws doing it, too. But wasn't she from 'old' money and they were 'new'? Maybe they were a little insecure.
comment by troutbend on Sept 16, 2011 7:24 PM ()
I recall that both families were from "new" money, from bootlegging etc.
Jackie did comment that it was difficult fitting into the Kennedy clan; they were a raucous group. She was a private person; they were all in each other's business.
Jack wanted a large family, but Jackie miscarried (Arabella and Patrick) and maybe one other pregnancy. I didn't know that.
reply by susil on Sept 17, 2011 7:00 AM ()

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