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The High Cost of Dying

I was watching 60 Minutes on CNBC last night and one segment of the show was about how end of life decisions to stay alive at any cost is bankrupting Medicare.

These are some of the things doctors said: 75% of people die in hospitals. Elderly people with no hope of recovery or any hope of improved quality of life are being subjected to un-necessary tests and costly procedures--for what??
For the hospitals to make money, that's what. Full beds and testing mean money.
One woman said her mother was hospitalized as a No Code, but as she was dying, dozens of useless tests were done, subjecting her mother to needless torture.

I worked five and a half years on a floor where patients were hooked up to ventilators to stay alive. Once a patient has had a stroke or other damage and can't speak for themselves, family often have the attitude "Keep Mama or Papa alive, no matter what!"

I knew a woman whose family insisted she be kept alive, so she was put on a ventilator that breathed for her. She had a tube surgically implanted in her stomach for the enriched milk feedings that supplied calories. This formula causes diarrhea, so she lay unconcious, pooping on herself, and getting skin irritations on her backside, and developed bedsores. She had a Foley catheter in her bladder to drain urine into a bag, leading to constant urinary tract infections.
Imagine lying there not able to take a bath or shampoo your hair or brush your teeth, gurgling around the tube in your throat.

She got pneumonia several times and was dosed with IV antibiotics. Blood had to be drawn for tests every day--sometimes several times a day. She lay there inert and after nearly a year, her tissues started to ooze and smell--she was rotting--but still breathing via ventilator. This was a woman who after that massive stroke should have been allowed to pass away peacefully. The doctors knew that. One of them should have sat down with the family and the hospital ethics committee and talked frankly about doing the right thing. Being kept alive by artificial means was wrong wrong wrong--and very costly. No telling how much Medicare was billed for that year. This insanity was ignored because the clueless family insisted on it--and the hospital made money off this situation.

I know whereof I speak. I am a registered nurse who worked five and a half years on a ventilator unit and not one of the long term severely brain damaged patients on that unit came off the ventilator and was able to go home. If they got off, The only way they left the hospital was on funeral home stretcher. I was always dismayed by family members saying 'If we keep so and so alive, maybe a miraculous cure will be found.' That's magical thinking. That is not common sense. That is not reality.

A doctor on the 60 Minutes show said "Denial of death becomes a delusion." Another doctor said "We have to acknowledge we are mortal."
I myself have seen the horror of delusion and want nothing more than to be at home and kept comfortable when my time comes. Trust me--there are things worse than death. Being kept alive by artificial means is not life.

BTW, Jack Kevorkian has died--in a hospital. I'm disappointed with Jack. He should have suicided himself to put meaning into all that rhetoric of his. But as I suspected he was all talk, a psycho who could talk the talk, but was too chicken to follow his own mandates.

susil

posted on June 6, 2011 9:18 AM ()

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So many people see the gov't as their way to attain vast riches, and I don't mean all those people at the bottom of the food chain who qualify for food stamps, I mean all the fat cat corporations that abuse the Medicaid and Medicare systems.
comment by troutbend on June 9, 2011 7:42 PM ()
You seem to think Kevorkian was persuading people to choose death. He only made it easy for those who really wanted it. If he wanted to live with his illness, that was his choice.
comment by tealstar on June 7, 2011 11:03 AM ()
No, I realize that desperate people sought him out, and it's not the euthanasia or anything like that that bothers me. Maybe one day this country will be enlightned enough so people won't have to resort to putting themselve in the hands of a Kevorkian, but their own doctors will be legally allowed to assist them.
What has always bothered me about Kevorkian is that he enjoyed what he was doing. (Let's say abortion was illegal all over the U.S. and some doctor truly believed in a woman's right to choose so much that he would do abortions knowing he was bucking authority, but did it from altruism and humility, not because he got publicity--then I could respect a man like that.)
reply by susil on June 9, 2011 3:43 PM ()
I have often thought about this and for that reason Ted and I have living
wills. People are afraid to address this problem and medicare is wonderful
but so often abused by elderly people and their children. We are making
it as easy as possible with direct cremation and a celebration of life
after...no funerals for us.
comment by elderjane on June 7, 2011 5:31 AM ()
jeri; good for you; that is wonderful. You are wise for making preparations--but you need to sit down with your family if you haven't already and make clear to them what you want done--sometimes unscrupulous funeral directors can talk a family in the throes of grief into changing the plans and getting expensive caskets etc. Everything should be written down and talked about while you can make your wishes known.
reply by susil on June 7, 2011 8:53 AM ()
My mother made us promise her we would not keep her alive on breathing tubes. When the doctor suggested a breathing tube my sister and I said, "Absolutely NOT". He complied with our wishes. She had passed out sitting in a hospital bed; we had an autopsy done and found she died from a ruptured aorta. Nothing could have saved her. My sister and I are at peace knowing we followed her wishes.
comment by gapeach on June 6, 2011 6:35 PM ()
Well peach all I can say is you did the right thing by honoring your mother's wishes--peace is rightfully yours.
reply by susil on June 7, 2011 8:56 AM ()
Kevorkian advocated choice in the face of unrelenting illness that can go on for years, such as Alzheimers. If he had been thus diagnosed, perhaps he would have suicided. Leaked reports say he died of pulmonary thrombosis. Sometimes there are no symptoms. Maybe he didn't know and, in any case, it seems that treatment for this condition sometimes results in a continued reasonable quality of life. In any case, he should be allowed the same choice he advocates for others. Live or die, but he gets to choose, not the bureaucracy.
comment by tealstar on June 6, 2011 1:41 PM ()
Hi teal; I read that he had been hospitalized several times in failing health--regardless, I don't think with his ego he would have ever put himself down. What was good for the goose wasn't good for the gander so to speak.
reply by susil on June 7, 2011 8:59 AM ()
Talking about waste.Before scheduling my eye surgery one of the things that we need to do bring dark glasses or sun glasses.
Do not own a pair for most of my life had transaction lens.
This is the kicker.When I got one of my eyes done and then being discharged was these dark glasses with the side that these old people wear after their surgery.I said that brought my own.
doesn't matter this comes with it as they presented me with the glasses.
This is waste.Completely.They do not have to issued these.
People can bring their own glasses.Not sure how much they charge medicare.
This is waste,waste,waste,of course been going on for quite awhile.
comment by fredo on June 6, 2011 11:16 AM ()
FREDO I AM AGHAST--IN MY REPLY I HIT THE THUMBS UP EMOTICON INSTEAD OF THE THUMBS DOWN--
reply by susil on June 7, 2011 9:08 AM ()
fredo, don't know when you had your eye surgery but hope you recovered well, and what you experienced is a sample of Medicare abuse.
fraud and waste are like a giant mosquito feeding off the increasingly weakened carcass of Medicare. A little dribble of waste here, a dab of fraud there and after a while even a giant is sucked dry.
What a shame that a needed and basically good program to help the elderly and disabled has been so abused.
reply by susil on June 7, 2011 9:06 AM ()
Hi red; Nothing will be done--nobody wants to shake the tree for fear of what may fall out--so to speak.
comment by susil on June 6, 2011 10:03 AM ()
yes,they need to do something about this.
comment by fredo on June 6, 2011 9:49 AM ()
Hi fredo;There's a lot of fraud and waste in Medicare billing--no one has the balls to address the problem, so nothing will be done.
reply by susil on June 6, 2011 10:00 AM ()
Yes, that is often the case, and it's too bad.
comment by redimpala on June 6, 2011 9:31 AM ()
Hi red; sorry, my reply above, and tx for stopping by.
reply by susil on June 6, 2011 10:04 AM ()

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