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Life & Events > Hexed, Vexed, and Discombobulated
 

Hexed, Vexed, and Discombobulated

Things haven't been going well for yours truly; ergo, I haven't felt like talking about it. First, I have been to two doctors and shown them the nodes in my breasts, and both doctors blew me off with a demeanor of "Oh Well."
It's like you're old and fat and so what. I hate it when people treat me like that. Hate it.
On both visits to these two different doctors, I asked them to examine these nodes--I undid my blouse and popped those boobs out and the doctors shied away. Geeze. So I have an appointment with the breast center, a specialty clinic, at the end of this month and will see what happens.

THEN: A person whom I respected and thought of as as capable and competent, and has been coming to the house to help me out for several years, threw TWO tantrums under my roof. Her personal life has been in major upheaval and for some reason she let it all blow out at me. I'm too old and tired for tantrums and told her so. Finis for her. All I want is peace and quiet.

Then: Monday week I ordered some medical supplies from Bayer medical company. The company said it would arrive by Fed Ex on Wednesday. It didn't. By Friday I called the company and they said Fed Ex tracking said it had been delivered already.
I called the local Fed Ex office in Hattiesburg and the employee said yes, our driver says he left the package tied to a fence. I said I don't have a fence. She said "Oh he says tied to a gate." I said I don't have a gate or a fence.
Oh. So she says she'll get to the bottom of it.
Several phone calls over the next few days established that the driver had no idea where I lived and didn't deliver the package at all.

I told the Fed Ex front desk I believe the driver didn't want to come down all this way, and threw the package into a dumpster and went home. She said "But he's been with us for years!" As if that explained it. In other words believe the driver, not the customer. Really pi** ed me off. By then I had called Bayer to send more supplies via the post office.

It reminds me of the run in with UPS several months ago. I had ordered two Periodic Table of the Elements charts from Frey scientific. One chart arrived but had been opened while in the custody of UPS. The cardboard mailing tube had been ripped open, the chart crammed back in and a lot of tape used to seal up the tears on the mailing tube. I called Frey who sent me another chart gratis, and I had a go round with UPS about what happened to my property. Not that it went anywhere. I remember the UPS spokesperson saying "But the driver has been with us for years!" I didn't say the driver had done it, but someone along the UPS line had.

THEN: I have been fighting a cold, a downright and dirty cold for about 10 days that has knocked me low.

Well, this is getting to long so I'll blog about that in the following post.

susil

posted on Nov 8, 2011 9:28 AM ()

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It gets a person down to have things like this pile up. I've been having a nagging feeling that I'm overdue for a bad time like you're having.
comment by troutbend on Nov 12, 2011 1:11 PM ()
Annoying vexing events always seem to come in clumps!
reply by susil on Nov 20, 2011 8:43 AM ()
Your experience with the doctors is awful. You are doing the right thing going to a specialty clinic. Keep us informed. Your experience with the delivery is really maddening. In New York, the UPS guy hated to come up to the 6th floor in the one elevator available, so he'd ring the bell and leave a note stuck in our mail slot that said he'd "tried" to deliver the package and no one was home, because he didn't stick around to hear us answer via the intercom. We couldn't get downstairs fast enough to nail him.
comment by tealstar on Nov 11, 2011 1:44 PM ()
Hi teal;I don't know what happened to "The customer is always right" but nowadays, employers take at face value what their employees tell them, like the drivers for Fed Ex and UPS. Annoys me to no end. I'd like to nail either one of those drivers, but they don't hang around long enough. Seems that I recall you used to have to sign for packages, but no more, so they can say they delivered something and lie through their teeth.
reply by susil on Nov 12, 2011 9:22 AM ()
I am sorry about your cold. Hell's bells why didn't they give you a mammogram? This needs checking into but I guess you have arranged for that.
If you can't diagnose your illness then you are out of luck with these
young doctors who seem to not regard medicine as a helping profession but
as a vehicle for getting rich.
comment by elderjane on Nov 10, 2011 5:52 AM ()
Hi jeri; these two doctors were middle aged, you'd think they'd be more aware. But I really think they see an older lady and think why bother?
reply by susil on Nov 12, 2011 9:25 AM ()
Sorry. I should have read this one first. Hope toy get better and your luck with carriers change. BTW, I heard that UPS and FED-EX were going to merge and name it "FED UPS">
comment by larryb on Nov 8, 2011 5:51 PM ()
Hi larry; FED UPS--I like it!!!!!
reply by susil on Nov 12, 2011 9:26 AM ()

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